Who was the hardest person you had to invite to your wedding?

This is a really good discussion baby,and I know weddings are a very special occasion and people want them to be just perfect,and I know sometimes it is hard to invite someone or a group of people either because you have not talked to them in a good while,or because you do not always get a long with them and you are not quite sure what they will say,and I know you had trouble calling the person because you had not talked to them in a long time,and it does show that sometimes you can not believe what you hear,and I am glad that I was able to be there for you,and I am glad I was able to convince people that it was better to invite the person,and I would say the hardest person to invite to our wedding for me will be Skip my grandfather because we have not seen or talked to him in many years,since he told us not to come see him because my mother was sick,and we are going to send him an invitation,and now that you have called the person you wanted to invite,it is making me think about calling Skip to see if he would come or if he would even talk to me,so I know I should give it a lot of thought,and I should ask my mother what she thinks and I am sure after reading this you will tell me what you think,I love you with all my heart and soul,have a great day,good luck with all of your mylotting goals,and Happy Posting.

Yes it did happen to me once. A distant relative well known in the family for talking rubbish about any body and everyday was left out of the list of people to be invited for my sisters wedding. Every body voiced one opinion, not to invite him or else he will spoil the party. I put my foot down and insisted on calling him for the marriage, though I never speak to him. I was of the opinion that his position in the family must be respected and so he should be invited. He came as expected and joined the party but there were hardly anybody ready to talk to him. I felt so bad, I went to him as though there was nothing between us and started introducing him to my new friends. He stuck to me like glue throughout the party and felt ashamed of himself. Thereafter he found a good friend in me and started mending his ways. After all you live only once, then why not set some good examples for others to follow. meapas.

My husband and I were very lucky with our very small wedding. While there are a few relatives out there we've had conflicts with in the past (very very small conflicts, so nothing to worry about), everything came off just fine with the wedding, and people forgot their old issues for a few hours, and just had a good time.

There wasn't anybody who was hard to invite. What was hard was not being able to invite quite everybody I would have liked to. Some of the folks my in-laws had us invite were people I had never met before and haven't seen since and I'm not sure my in-laws have either. And I wish there were a few people I could have invited in their place.

I am not yet married but when I got engaged the persons I had a hard time telling that I will be getting married are my parents because they sort of think that I was still a child. When I was still in college my mother always tell her friends that after graduation I could do anything I want, even marry but now that I graduated for almost 4 years now, had my license as an engineer, have a job but they still think of me as their baby. When I first brought my boyfriend at home his hands were freezing, my mom talked to him but my dad just stayed at their room. When we got engaged they still have no reactions. I guess it would take some time before they could be used to the fact their their baby was already a grown up.

ironically, the easiest person for me to invite was my ex! the hardest? wow.. my in-laws? had to arrange every single detail for them! but what to do, I am taking their son away from them! LOL...

Honestly the hardest people to invite were both my and my husband's parents. Both of our parents kind of treat us like crap. My parents absolutely adore my older stepsister, whose life is perfect. They look down on me because I can't be like her, and it drives me nuts more than a little. Every step of the way through planning the wedding, they kept comparing my low-budget wedding to my stepsister's and criticizing it (she spent like $50,000 on her wedding and hired a professional planner, of course it was perfect). My husband's parents are no better. For starters, they're really manipulative. And they also told my husband that he shouldn't date me, let alone think about marrying me. I wasn't raised by my biological parents, and his parents assumed that I would be unstable and have a bad character because of it.

Both our families were giving us hell when we were discussing wedding options, so we eloped and didn't tell anyone until it was over. Now whenever i hear stories of other people's weddings and plannings, I'm glad we did it the way we did. There was no muss and no fuss. No worrying about who to invite, if everyone will get along, if everyone will RSVP, what to wear, what to eat, where to go. UGH!!! I'm getting a head ache just thinking about it!

If you are talking about a wedding only this is a hard question for me. See there have been some issues with my family and my now current boyfriend but we plan to marry. So I think inviting them plus some of my aunts and cousins is going to be hard. I am not saying I will not do it but when the time comes I think it will be hard on me but I will anyway. We are suppose to get married in September but I think it might happen on another date. We have to talk more about it later.

wedding only belong me and my wife,why i invite other person join it, i don't like it. my wedding shoudl be different. there are only my wife and me