do you think discussing intimate positions with your partner is good idea?

I think it's a great idea. I want to know everything about my partner because he's my partner so I should know everything. The discussion you used as an example has never happened to me, and I've been with my partner for over 3 years now. Why would either partner choose not to do something the others prefered way. And if a couple doesn't talk about what they do and don't like, then how is the other supposed to know. Plus I think it would turn you on more to talk about things. That's just my personal view.

acceptance is a great way to bond more with my partner.of course we all have different views about our intimate moments.i was just wondering, like if you were watching adults movies together.couples don't just stare at the movie.so we talk about it.it could not be before lovemaking that you discuss about it...it could be when you're having quiet moments over a cup of coffee, share a fancy thought.and knowing that my partner cares about it a, and is interested to know what we like or don't like, makes it more special.

exactly. ever wondered how you're going to ask your partner to do it with you in the shower if you don't talk about likes and dislikes specially on topics like this.intimacy starts with acceptance. and he/she will never know unless you talk about it. you might be missing out on something very exciting just because you didn't talk about it.be cool, be yourself.