Five tricks to start a new relationship
By cici6880
@cici6880 (656)
China
May 30, 2009 10:25pm CST
1.Choose a dramatic setting for your first date,such as a roller coaster,or go to see a nerve-jangling movie such as Fatal Attraction.Scientists suspect the buzz of adrenaline this causes ia confused with the thrill of attraction.
2.Mirror the other person's gestures,for example by taking a sip of your drink at the same time.Research shows that copying the other person helps create a feeling of affinity.
3.Share a joke or engineer a comic situation such as learning new dance steps while one of you is blindfolded.Scientists found an experience that makes you laugh creates a feeling of closeness.
4.Get the soundtrack right.It has long been said that music is the food of love and many people will turn to romantic tunes such as those by Marvin Gaye or Barry White to create the right mood.Rock music has also been proved to work.
5.Take exercise together,possibly by playing sport or jogging.This boosts dopamine levels in the brain.
OK!My friend,which tricks had been chosen for your relationship?
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@fodschwazzle (85)
• United States
31 May 09
Okay, I'll try it.
1. I'll have a friend kidnap her to start the date. He will be dressed like Freddie Kruger.
2. I'll go to the bathroom at the same time she does.
3. I'll place a banana peel in my walking path. That old slapstick comedy should do the trick, eh?
4. So System of a Down should be playing on my stereo? Or maybe some Led Zeppelin to go for that classic rockishness.
5. Fencing is a sport,right? Thrust, parry.
I'm thinking I should probably go subtler than this. I've also found that attempting to stack too much into one first date can backfire. Sometimes its nice just to cook her dinner.
It's been awhile since my wife and I had a first date.
