Making love kills the feeling of love ...

Apparently the love you thought you had for this woman was not deep within your heart and soul, for no matter what the relationship does or doesn't do, those feelings just don't just go away. IN other words you were infactuated with her. Guilty of what? Being with someone and believing you loved them within you totally, no I don't feel your guilty of that, what you may feel your guilty about is that you never truly examined in you how you truly felt until it was gone.

that is not true most of the times , it might increase the sense of feeling of love

See, everything in excess is poison hope u've heard this already right? so that works with everything, if you just rush on things with a girl than this is likely to happen, Well just give it time, go slow, and dont just push everything inside it, You know love is scientifically, exploring the Other person deeply and from their inside, mostly physical and chemical and when you outbound your ranges with making love or maybe too soon? the body chemicals loose the craving of seeking the unknown on the other, coz basically you know everything about them now, all remains is the feelings of care and thats it. Like its said, beautiful is when its hidden. Love is beautiful when its binded within some limits.

i think its not yet true love...you just thought its love but actually its not. maybe you are attracted to them and really likes them but you said after you had make love with them there's a sudden change of feelings...well it happens all the time... to some...huh! :-) why not try to delay the make love part of the relationship? so that you'll know if you really love this girl...if you can stand in a relationship w/out it...or i don't know...i hope time will come that you find the one... have a nice day! :-)

mayb you are guilty... i believe that love a person no matter what you do between you do, it wont change your feeling toward her..however the most important is the basic- the love without the love, mayb after you reach your target you lost interest in her le so have the feeling like that.. you should know what you are thinking now and i believe that you truely love those girl before jus mayb you feel hard to communicate after all of this becoz sometimes making love will make people preasure and even want to avoid it

I believe that you were definitely not in love. Love is an emotion that is very deep and on many different levels, it sounds like you were maybe bored. Men typically love the thrill of the hunt, and once we have acquired our "prey" or "prize" we as men tend to get bored and try to find a way out of our current relationship. The socalled "true feelings" were more a feeling of lust or anticipation than love. I have faced similar feelings. I do not believe you were in love with those girls but you did cared for them. I believe you are only guilty of what most men are guilty of and that is your goal has been attained and you do not know what to do from that point on.

It doesn't always true that if you are making love, it will kill the love you feel, because in some reason it can increase more love towards the person, if you are treating making love as the extension of a growing relationship, and love must be present not just releasing something.