Does your spouse/boyfriend gets angry a lot?
By Maryam27
@Maryam27 (411)
Pakistan
May 30, 2009 11:59pm CST
Does you spouse/husband/boyfriend/lover gets angry a lot a little things? What you do to set his mood? Do you really make an effort to get his mood back to normal or you just let the time do the work?
I need some tips here girls, help me out please.
7 responses
@eddiechoohn (340)
• Malaysia
31 May 09
Try figure out what makes him unhappy, then refocus his attention on things that will make him happy or feel sweet.
For example you can start a topic about how you first met him, your first date, first drinks that shared together..etc..
Anything that will distract his attention from things that made his mood go bad to things that will make him happy will do...
Happy mylotting:)
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
1 Jun 09
You need tips because he gets angry a lot? At little things or at you?
You should talk to him maybe when he's calm and lovey dovey - that's my secret when i talk to my bf. He's more rational that way - and definitely thinks about you and more considerate about how you feel when he's in lovey dovey mood.
try it out! ;-)
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
I am single right now so i'm just going to talk about my former girlfriend. My first girlfriend was so possessive. She get's angry on little things. Let's say she gets jealous. There was even a time where i asked if she's enjoying getting angry at me. Relationship is supposed to be a happy set up. I would just hug her then say something sweet to her. I guess that calms her down.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
31 May 09
My wife often gets angry a lot a little things.I don't reciprocate.I keep silent.I know if I talk that will fan her anger.So silence is the best policy.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
2 Jun 09
Exactly Bhanu, you are right about it. When I can't be of any help then I like to keep silent too and give him sometime to calm down and understand the situation. But sometimes my silence annoys him too and he thinks like I am of no help to him. That's where I don't seem to understand what I should be doing to calm him don and make him feel better...
@marie_cehl (50)
• Philippines
31 May 09
The answer is Capital Y E S! He is a hot headed person who is also happen got a high level pride man. Sometimes Im getting tired of our petty quarrels and his no-sorry policy. I usually ignore his sentiments and just telling him that I love him he shouldnt be like that.
@CodeKitt (27)
• United States
31 May 09
No, my bf doesn't really get angry over little things. Although sometimes, he easily gets mad when it concerns things he's really passionate about. When he does, I usually talk to him about the problem to find a solution or calm him down, but if that doesn't work then I give him space and time to cool down.
@angelbelle578 (1635)
• Philippines
31 May 09
My partner is a hot headed. She always got angry over small things. I aslo get angery when she's like that. That's why we always clash to it other. If I know Im right I let our feeling be alone for a while until one of us apologize. Sometimes it her and sometimes its me. But we stil manage to be together for long time. We're three years now.
