They SAID its RISKY and how true it for you?

@mjmike (21)
Philippines
May 31, 2009 7:37am CST
Having kids is not easy as what do some people says but why do other parents says that having kids is a complete part of life ... without kids in life is nothing ... we do our marriage life with like scarercow .. do you think that having kids in life is just a waste of time or it ads more color to our life because we see our own kids especially if we made it with all the love.
4 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
yes it is true that its really hard when you have kids because the more you have it the more responsibilities you have in your life,but if you are persuasive on this you could also pass by on it,they said that family will never be a family when there is no child.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
1 Jun 09
Life is so lovely but it is even better with kids in the home. Whether a baby or child is born to the family, fostered or adopted their is great joy in having him or her around. In the case of a lady having a baby she will have the enjoyment of seeing him or her grow and develop. It is such fun planning play activities and it is delightful when a child's reading and writing skills take off. If an older child is adopted he or she will enjoy stability and love from his or her new family. The adoptive couple might find the child's behavior poor to begin with but making the child become happy and settled will be most rewarding. The risks in pregnancy can be varied. However lots of women go through it and the birth without any serious problems. A relationship between a wife and husband should hopefully be stable because having a baby might place some strain on it. Some couples do end up getting divorced which is sad for the children especially. I think if a lady wants to have a baby then she should attempt to do so. Her life will become much nicer than before.
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
31 May 09
I do not think that everyone is cut out to have children and that is is something you should give a great deal of thought to. It can be very hard on a marriage, but on the other hand it can draw two people closer together. Children are a true blessing in my eyes, and I am great full to have them in my life.
@faisai (1138)
• Hong Kong
31 May 09
I just believe that human beings, ie. us, is just animals and making sure the species continue to grow is our single most important reason of being brought to this world. But then, I agree that having kids is not as simple as it seems to be. Giving birth is the easy part but raising the kid is the most difficult one. It takes a lot from the parents to raise a kid so that they serve the world well when they grow up.