Should I or SHould I not?
By mjmike
@mjmike (21)
Philippines
6 responses
@cathy78513 (283)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
It depends on the person. If they feel that they really want to and ready for what's in store for them then go and be married. But you should think and consider a lot of things before coming up into the decision of being married because. One thing that we should not include in the considerations is that we're only doing it because everyone's doing it or we just want to try and experience it. For me before getting married you should be physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready. Since after getting married the couple become one, they should learn how to compromise and accept each other for who he or she is. So if you feel like you are willing to the rest of your life with only one person then be married.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Getting married with somebody is not a thing you need to do because everybody does it or thats the next thing in line when you have a significant other. But ask questions like 'Am i ready to share the rest of my life with him?', 'Am i ready for the married life?' and a whole lot of questions that pertains to living with that somebody for the rest of your life even if you might see some wrong in him.
For me, I base it with does he love God like I do..Because my priority is God in the center of everything in my life and if he does not see it same as I do I do not see myself with that person. Another thing that I am thinking of before I get married is can we go over not so important things and important things. There are times that we will disagree with things but am I willing to go an extra mile to straighten things out with him or not.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
31 May 09
Well I guess it really depends on how you feel about your current relationship and your partners opinion about how things are. If you and your partner is not comfortable about getting married then better not pursue it. But if your partner is keen about that and you love your partner then better enter married life together would be a better choice.
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
31 May 09
I suggest for you to marry the person you love. Have faith and be optimistic. The best thing you need to do is to find or should I say wait for the right man who deserves your love. And besides imagine yourself, what would happen if you stay single with all your life? So make up your mind and do whatever your heart tells you.
@zouna5 (564)
• Greece
31 May 09
You should do what your heart is telling you!!!If you live alreadyu with this person,i would say to you that married or not is the same so do not tirer your mind...I would suggest to youto live with your partner in the same house and see how it is going.The only thing that matters is that there exists love.Everything else is for thge rest people eyes and families.Relax and enjoy yor life!
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Do not pressure yourself in making a decision. I always believe that time is important in any decision we make in life. If you felt like you are not yet ready to get married and he is already pushing you just be honest - tell him that you are not yet ready. If you are just trying to think what is the best choice even if he is not asking you. I guess, just don't mind the thought just make sure that you enjoy every single day that you have. Hope this helps.