How do we understand men?

My girlfriend and I have his discussion often. I say that men are simple minded, we are not that complex. I see women as being too complex, sometimes annoyingly so, but since I assume they are all like that I accept to tolerate it. I have come to the conclusion that I will never perfectly understand women. I think women think too critically of everything, so when something that is simple to understand comes along, they want to over-think it, which they should not, but they do anyways. You want to believe that men are more complex than they really are but they are not. This will probably never be resolved so what men and women must do is just have discussions about this when it comes up but understand that they will never agree on a solution.

I am a man ,i don't know why you feel that the men are hard to understand, actually,many men are very simple?direct,they would directly tell you his ideas and feeling. Do you have a bad luck and just meeting one man who hard to understand? or he just have a bad mood?

It will be a neverending quest of understanding men and it will take thousand years I guess to fully uncover the truth behing a man's brain, body, heart and those emotions that they do hide especially from us and even from themselves. They are so complex that made men very challenging to handle and made men and women attract to each other. They are not hard to understand, it is just they are not as expressive and emotional as women can be.

I'll tell you why men are difficult to understand.. THEY ARE FROM MARS!! A planet that only has single highways, not able to multi-task and always forgetting the important things we women consider valuable!... They only think with what we thought was a brain but no.. it that thing in between their legs!!

Never we can t understand man as they can t understand us. They act as instincts, we act as feelings, they are more realistic, we are more dreamers. Is a big difference how they think, they like to know clear things, we want to understand all words meanings. Is and will be hard to understand one other

It can be very hard to understand men. I agree, it is because men and women are very different. I wish I could be a guy for like a day and see how they think. Steve Harvey wrote a book called "Act like a lady, Think like a man". It's a very interesting book. I have no idea if it's true or not, but since the author is a man who has had experience with lots of different people, he may actually be right!

Maybe this article might shed light on this matter. http://www.wikihow.com/Understand-Men

They are just as strange to us as we are to them. The only way to learn what they want etc is to talk to them about it and work out a way to live together. That is what my partner and I did. Communication is the key and it is the only way to succeed. The only thing that works is to learn what each person likes and dislikes and honour it. It can be simple things like liking quiet in the morning. I do not think this is a particularly male thing but every person is different and you have to work out their individual needs.

I think the reason women can't understand men is because they are just too simple. I think it's hard for us to wrap our heads around the fact that it is possible to be so simple. Women are always looking for a hidden meaning in mens words, when really they are just straight forward and telling the truth, or lying. We take what they say and do and how they think and try to make something else of it instead of just accepting thats how it really is. But with females there is generally much more going on, and thats why guys can't understand women. They don't get how someone could be so complex and confusing in everyday life. But thats the beauty of being different, lol.

i must admit, they are not very hard to figure out.

people always like that,no matter men or women ,life is always like this.isn't good?

Well, woman are harder to understand but Men are more harder to understand, if you are not able to read his body language. Man say so many things, they may say lie with an open body language, and girls often fall to that. What I have found out is that when women are not in love with a man then she reads a man a bit better.As soon as she falls in love, woman do not want to read that man, simply because they do not like to think any negative about him and that's where things go wrong.

I'm a man from India and I wish to respond to your question. Man and women often tend to show what others want to see in them, when a person likes or loves an individual he or she often misses this mask. Men are generally less complex then women, they often come out in the open when you get to know them, but people who pretend to fake a relationship are often not easily understood. The best way to understand a person is to know their past, it can be their family and friends and experience in their life, this gives lot of insight into one's feelings and reactions to events in life. One should to devoid of any emotions when understanding or judging a person (emotions often cloud our judgement)and again this depends on our own state of mind and our intellectual ability.

i think both womens and mens are hard to understand i don't know why but that the ways how life just is??!!! neither is rite or wrong!!!

i think both womens and mens are hard to understand i just don't know why but that the way how life go!!!?? neithere is rite or wrong!!!