do you believe in love at first sight?
By maebelle
@maebelle (190)
Philippines
June 2, 2009 7:59am CST
according to them, love at first sight is when you feel your heart jump for that specific person when you first see him/her... do you believe in it?
7 responses
@canielynne (135)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
NO.. I don't believe in love at first sight.. because how can you love a person when you haven't know her/him well.. maybe you are attracted by their physical appearance but it still not love.. it's just an infatuation.. some people mistaken infatuation as love and it's too late before they realize it.. it takes time for you to love a person.. you will have to go a lot of processes before you can say that you really love that person.. so for me there's no such thing as love at first sight..! only infatuation... take care and happy mylotting :)
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
yes its true.. its just more on physical attraction... i have been thinking how will you really feel love if you don't know the person... so think its just more on physical attraction because love is a process... you never have it in a snap of a finger..
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
Well I used to believe it at first, because I experienced love at first sight with my first boyfriend. I thought it was true and I really wished it will be forever. Sadly it didn't turn out the way I expected it to be and the worst thing was that our break-up led to our maturity. After the break-up he got a stable job, had a girlfriend and things in his family were okay now. I too have been busy being active in my commitments, studies and family. Too bad we missed that part. But I guess the lesson is that we shouldn't all live in fantasy because there are some things we don't expect and in the end it will just hurt us.
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
yes... well, personally i dont believe in it.. because i think its based on the time you get together and all.. but its true that you must not live in fantasy.. i've been hurt..really really hurt..but i know, everything happens for a reason.. until now, i've been hurting a little, but i have a lot of diversions... and because of my break-up with my boyfriend, i learn a lot.. i hope, it will be helpful for myself...hehe
@christineee (36)
• United States
4 Jun 09
I believe in lust at first sight, not love at first sight. I think it's possible to be really attracted to someone when you first see them, but not to know that they're the one for you.
@mohinimandokhot (184)
• India
27 Aug 09
I do believe in love at first sight. If you have to think twice about someone and you have a choice between love at first sight, then it definitely has to be the love at first sight because you are left with very little doubt.
@ellaangelus (283)
• Tokelau
1 Dec 10
i believe that what we feel at first is crush. we all know that we mistake crushes for love, but if you stay and think about it, love is only for a person you know.. you know its character, you have been through a lot and the love between the two grew in time, not in the first day. whereas we all have crushes on people we don't know
at least that's my point of view...
