Is there a way you can measure how good you are as a friend?

Philippines
June 2, 2009 8:10am CST
How can you say that your friend is your bestfriend? or how can you say that you are his/her bestfriend? How do you measure once friendship or how good you are as a friend? Is this the people who know you, understand you, always be with you thru ups and downs, who take side with you when you have some fights, and who knows your deepest secret, so if that is the case then you have a lot of bestfriends. What about those friends who told you when your not right and never take sides with you when they know your wrong, who tell you your blind site, do you consider them your bestfriends? I think for me, those are people who always make me understand what is right and what is wrong, who tell me my blind side, for example i have bad breath or body odors, because i didnt know if i have that. Who is there to listen, not to take side but to just listen, a friend who never give up on you no matter how negative you are and always make you see the positive side of the world.
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@chilenita (473)
• Canada
2 Jun 09
if u r allways negative expect negative friends.... If i have friend that are allways that are negative and i have to allways be reminding them about being positive then i let them go..... I consider a best friend some that helps me out that when i call they are there and when they need some thing we will put are brains together and figure out the problem. Im extremly honest and I will tell u that u have some boogers and u smell or u look horrable in that skirt cause i truly dont wonna be walking around with a asmelly bugger face ugly dressed friend. people that are just friends are the party friends the ones u can rely on. U dont have to agree on everything i saw and if im worng so what im wrong just say so and maybe i'll trun around and say OMG ur sooo right. I fined that im a great friend but it taked a real person to handol my honest . I do and say what i want back.