Do you love you family?

@goapples (128)
June 2, 2009 10:35am CST
Do you love your family and have some kind of special connection with them, willing to do what ever they want, or do you just love you family because they are your family and you think that your family should be love, but really you can't stand them that much. With me it is the second option mostly i hate the constant nagging and most of the time they just get on my nerves.
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jayrene
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
of course i do love my family, we may fight sometimes, but i love them very much... especially my kids. they may get annoying and sometimes will make me mad at them, but i love them. if you have done nothing wrong i think there is no reason to be nagged at. like for example here, my kids will not listen to what i say, then i nag at them... but if they do the right thing i will of course not nag.
jayrene
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
yeah that's really annoying... yes there are times that i am in the wrong, my husband or my daughter points it out to me... i say sorry to whoever i was nagging for the wrong reason afterwards. have you tried explaining your side?
goapples
@goapples (128)
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4 Jun 09
Even if you have done nothing wrong, but are still nagged at surely that is really annoying. You may have a valid point of your children not doing what they want, but what if you are in the wrong and misunderstood the situation?
goapples
@goapples (128)
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5 Jun 09
Yea that does sometimes happen and i have tried to explain my side sometimes but most of the time it is not worth the hassle, as they don't understand your point of view or where you are coming from.
MyzDy19
@MyzDy19 (919)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
Of course I love my family. Even though we have misunderstandings I still love them coz I know they also loves me including my imperfections ^O^
goapples
@goapples (128)
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4 Jun 09
I'm kind of the same thoses little imperfections :)
underdogtoo
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
I love my family and that is the interesting thing. My kids all have different personalities and there is always something to argue about. I like a little disagreement here and there but I like to have a peaceful conclusion at the end of the day. cheers!!
goapples
@goapples (128)
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2 Jun 09
Hmm your lucky, you can have an argument and get something positive out of it, but with me it is totally different because when i argue with my mum she is really aggressive and doesn't budge from her standing point.
shikaymaru
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 09
Same with me. I hate their nagging especially my oldest sister. My mum don't nag as much as she do, so why I should listen to her. But somehow I do listen to her but not 100%..I do what she asked so that she will not complain to my mom.. I don't my mom to hear bad things from her about me, but it always happen. I want my life to be simple, and she's the kind of person who wants perfection and strict. I just need to hang on till she move out from this house.
goapples
@goapples (128)
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2 Jun 09
I have sympathy with you, i feel sorry for you because of your sister and if your older then your sister there is reliance on you to look after her and guider her (do what she wants) but you could also say that she needs to experience things for herself
Guitarpunk
@Guitarpunk (738)
• United States
2 Jun 09
They get on my nerves alot but still, you gotta love em!
goapples
@goapples (128)
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2 Jun 09
It's very true, you do have to love them, but your right as well if they get on your nerves it's truly annoying.