Is He Stupid?

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4 months ago, my friend called and told me that his girlfriend had dumbed him into another guy. It was their Monthsary when he discovered that his girlfriend has another guy since he saw them together. Well, according to my friend, the girl told him that they’ve met during their “retreat”. They were together for 3 days during the retreat and the girl had fall in love with him. My friend can’t accept her excused that she fall in love with that guy so easily without knowing him very much. He actually knew the guy since they were classmates in one subject before. Honestly, when I met her girlfriend I don’t like her already. It’s because of her attitude and the way she acts to the things that is happening to our friendship. However, I need to accept her to be part of our circle of friends for my friend. I tried my best to like her and to be a good friend to her just like the way I treat some of my girl friends. We never became close but we hang out and talked each other more often. We make some jokes and we somehow treat each other as a friend. Well, when my friend told me that she dumbed him I didn’t mind at all. I was thinking that he was suffering in his own dose of medicine since he was doing the same thing before with her previous girlfriends. However, he was so unlucky that this time he was already serious with her, the girl had just broke his heart and just take him for granted. Anyway, to make the story short, this past few months I’ve tried my best to make him happy and let him go on with his life. I made so many jokes like I’ve made some banners, passing text messages for “Hiring Single Girls” so that he will just find another girl. After 2 months, he told me that he already have a girlfriend. I never met the girl, I don’t even know her name, and he doesn’t want me to met his new girlfriend so, I just told him that his making an illusion and maybe its just an imaginary girl in his mind. We his friends really didn’t believe him and just thought his excuses to stop fooling him with “Hiring of Girlfriends”. Well, I know it wasn’t a good idea but it was just really for fun. Now, my point is 2 weeks ago my friend had texted me and made a confession that they were together again. The girl was the one who came to him and asked him if they can still be together since she still love him. I was so mad with my friend for taking her back in his life after the heartaches he have been through. I know how much she loves that girl but for the fact that he dumb him and go with another guy, I don’t think so that she deserves a second chance. According with my friend, the girl told him that they never have a relationship with that guy. They just become good friends. Well, my friend is just so stupid in believing her. Do you think that my friend had made a good decision? Does he really supposed gave her a second chance after dumping him? Is he stupid or what? As of now, I’m not talking to him because I don’t accept his decision of accepting her again.. I know that he has the right to decide for himself and I must support him but I just can’t do it. Maybe we just need time and space to be able to recall and understand the things that are actually happening. Well, he understand why I react like this since I’m not the only person who react like this but also his mother and some friends.