I am so sad, my good friend had got married and she avoid to meet with mr...WHY?

It's one thing that your good friend's husband is possessive and not understanding at all, but it's another thing that your friend could say that to you. Doesn't she think of you as a friend after all...? In this case, I can say that some friends are indeed like that. They will use your kindness without realizing it and whenever in future you try to remind them that at least you have been there for them and for them not to 'throw' you away, they will say that you helped them before not sincerely since you are mentioning it now. And there is also another kind of friend that is filled with inconsistency and ungratefulness. I'm sorry that you are hurt by your friend commenting that way. She is certainly wrong to say that, and personally to me, even if she's scared of her husband and not wanting to be friends with you anymore, she should not have put it so blatantly like that. You are better off without being friends with her anyway, since she cannot appreciate your friendship. Take care, my friend and don't be sad. If you have tried your best and she really doesn't want to be friends, then it's really her loss and not yours.

Ahh, she married a selfish, over-possessive man. There are guys like that, they want their wife's full attention and love and it seems as though her love will diminish when she shares it with her family or friends. The man has serious issues for social interaction. He must have been rejected many times in his life. I don't understand people like that... and i'm not sure there's much you can do aside from hoping that your friend will find time to spend with you without the knowledge of her husband. It's not fair and its sad that there are people like that.

Her husband doesn't want her to be friends with you? Why? That's pretty possessive of him. I agree with you that it's not fair, it doesn't seem right. Is there any reason why he wouldn't want your friend to spend time with you? He seems like the jealous type to me. Talk to her again, also make moves to befriend her husband so that he would see you in a different light. Good luck.

Hug to you.I am sorry to hear that.Maybe her husband wants her to be a good wife who only cares for him.They have got married,they want you to leave their life space.The best way for you is to find a true love and live happily . Good luck!

If she wants it that way just leave her as of this moment, I mean just give her space and time maybe she still confused or something. Sometimes we really need to give space to other people so that they will come to realized what they have done. I know it's been unfair in your side but just let your friend come to realized what she did is unfair by giving her the time and space.Just dont be too hard for yourself. This is not your fault but your friend's decision. Take it easy, and take it slow.

it is not fair. i have had some friends after they got married they didn't have time to see or talk to me either.i don't believe they were true friends to start with.

i think the reason why she told you that she dont want to continue your friendship is because her husband may get jealous and it will be the cause of their fight... sometimes its really hard to have a man/woman friendship because most of the time the partners gets jealous if the friends are too close to each other. try to give her time and think of what she had told you, who knows she may drop you a message sometimes and apologize for what she did and explain more her side. yes you did a lot to help her and it seems like she was ungrateful to you, im really sorry that it had happened to you like this. there may be other reasons, she wants to start her family... the man have kids, so she'll probably need more time to adjust to them, that's maybe why she said she doesnt have time for friends... when she had gotten used to her new family life, maybe she can have friends again.

That's indeed unfair you know!..however..i have also friends like her..what i did...is respect her for what she wants...sice she's happy coz she meet the love of her life..as long as she's happy,that would be great..don't worry in due time,she will be needing you...that's what friends are for, right?...just be there for her.