To Look And Feel Better

Hello dear, to feel better or to remain sad is only a choice by us so you are the sole one to decide what you want to choose. Left with the kids and alone is no little thing but still it is not the end of your live and the kid's live. No need to blame the man who was with you and the children for so many years because finally he is capable ot taking a decision also. Now you have to prove if you can stand firm with your kids, I know you can do it because nothing is impossible. You can work to get money and the kids will grow up too. Here on mylot, we do get paid for our activities so if you want to earn here then you have to spent time here also. This is a trustworty site so don't worry. But to be able to earn a living then you have a get a job which again I am sure you will. I believe in the power of a woman. If we want we are able to do many things. Just try and you will succeed.

I think that you need to take a step or two back, and try to look at things a bit more optimistically. I know from my own experience that it isn't always easy to do. It takes time and you have to take things one stap at a time. Small steps at that. I will tell you what I was told when my ex husband and I split up. It is his loss, not yours. It is hard to see that right now, but you really will see it once you stop feeling bad about yourself and begin looking at the great things about yourself. To do that, try a little trick that I use a lot. Look into the mirror, and look directly into your own eyes. Using your name, tell yourself three things that are great about you. Say them out loud, not in your head, and do this whenever you begin to feel bad, or at least once a day. It really does help to improve self-esteem because you have to find those things that you are having trouble seeing right now. You are fighting for your children, which makes you a wonderful person. I think that if you step back and make yourself a list of goals with small steps to reach each goal, you will find that you can get through this a lot easier than you think. I didn't say it would be easy, only easier if you make yourself a plan. As far as on-line things to make money, I know they are out there, but I couldn't tell you which one is the best. If you have tried something for a significant amount of time with no progress, close that account and try something else. Is that $75 a month worth it right now? It sounds like the answer is no, so why not cancel that account and work more at what you already do and use that money for something more important right now. Think about all the available resources in your area and ask around to find out where you can go for help if you need to. Take it from someone who has been there, you will come out of this situation a much stronger person than you have ever imagined. If the Lord brings you to it, He will see you through it.

hello deborahwd...i understand ur side and i know this problem is not easy for u being a single mom is a tough one but I envy you coz even though what happened to you ur still fighting for it just for your children I salute you...and for the site dont get easily fall into a site that who gives you money on net that is foolishness they'll just get ur account number and after all you will notice that your account was getting lower and lower....i promise you mylot will give you all your needs as long as you will follow their rules here and you post more discussions and post some responses too from other your friend..... happy posting friend....

I salute you for standing up for your kids.I suggest you take a step back and evaluate your life.what do I need to do? for financial cases,you might want to take a job and a sideline to have a steady flow of income.you might even ask help from family and friends if they know a job opening.Always pray and ask for His guidance.He will take care of you and your kids.