You can look but don't touch!

I think it is quite normal for us to be attracted by a good-looking person.If my girlfriend looked at a handsome guy on the road ,i would be glad to discuss with her whether the guy is really handsome or not.And when i see a beaty ,i usually speak to my girlfiend ,say,'hey,look,that is a pretty girl.'If she really is,my girlfriend would say she agree with me.Sometimes i added a word,'she is even beautiful than you!'so i got a hit on my back. lol

It's been a long time since I had anyone so I don't know if I have changed or not. I don't mind if they look....but when they start flirting then I am out of the picture..even if it's just temporary. I have a bit of a distrust from my ex....but let me tell you....if they look that means I can too...so they better be prepared!

Of course it's natural and wholesome to admire beauty. As an understanding partner, people should let these things pass. But, if partners attracted to beauty were good partners, they would also be sensitive to their own partners, and try to refrain. This rule is good: One look is fine, twice is too much. Don't try to twist this by 'making the first look really long' - that's what some people (ahem) might do. You should know the rule refers to the principle of faithfulness and abstinence, and not the absolute literal meaning.

Hi, yes of course that i don t like this. If he want to choice a woman more beatiful..he is free to go with she. If he look after other woman he don t respect me, this is sure. In my opinion, i don t want a man who are with me and thinking to other woman. You know, when somebody love you, never look after a beatiful woman, or maybe if he look, not when you are with him. Any way, man are so strange sometimes, they want much more, but never think that you can want much more too.

I feel exactly the same way you do! My husband still thinks that I am beautiful, too. The human body is a really beautiful thing. It should be enjoyed! In fact, my husband and I will often point out beautiful people to each other. He doesnt have a desire to go be with that other person, he is just admiring. In my mind, that is no different than admiring a beautiful piece of artwork!

Hi. This is an intereting question. But unfortunately, my partner never looks at beautiful women when we are together, so I don't have to the chance to feel being bothered. :) But if he does, I think it is OK. Everyone likes beautiful things. When I meet a handsome guy, my eyes will also be caught for a while. But my heart is still on my partner. So I think it is normal that if my honey's head is turned by beauty. :)

We have no problem with the other person looking, but flirting is the problem. OK we have some mutual friends of both genders that we joke around with, and to strangers it may appear we're flirting when it's all very innocent. He and I know, and the people we joke with know, and it's all good. However, when it comes to strangers (people who are strangers to one or both of us) looking is one thing, but flirting is off-limits.

well my partner does not do that, and if he did I guess it would depend on how much he is doing it. If he was paying more attention to other women than me I guess it would bother me, but if he is just casually looking so what, doesn't bother me either.

It depends with my first intuition..I might get jealous if she's really attractive lol.

Seeing your partner is not a treat. It is also not serious.I mean it happens to everybody and while some may be irritated when their partners stare at attractive girls, they would have to admit that it also happens to them! I really don't think girls or guys should give this much thought!

Jealousy is bad. Faith, Love, Romance, Desire are good. It matters not to me if she looks, nor to her if I look. We love each other, desire each other, are romantic to each other, and most importantly have FAITH in each other. Jealousy has no place in our lives. Cheers.

I won't bother me if he look at her while she was crossing and knowing the fact that she is a "beautiful" woman than it'll be ok for me if he just looked at her once but if he keep looking at her and look at her again and again than that would be quiet annoying and frustrating for me. SO not it won't bother me if his head turns at a beauty ONCE. Twice is a mistake and thrice.....well...;)

It does seem to matter to me and I am unsure why as normally I am not of a jealous nature. I've been married for nearly 10 years and when my husband does commit the occassional glance, I sometimes question him on it. Not really in a accusing tone but more questioning as he stateshe does not realize he is taking a glance until I bring it up....I am satisfied that it does not happen on a frequent basis, but I do feel it is disrespectful.

My motto is "you can look at the menu - just don't order the food" :)it doesn't really bother me either b/c I know that my husband is goign home with me....Besides, when ever I see an attractive man, I also look and infact i'll even tell myhubby "that man is handsome". I think as long as there is trust between you and your partner, then no one should feel insecure if someone is looking at someone else....

It doesn't bother me if my man checks out other women because honestly I check out other men. It's human nature to look at someone we find attractive so why get mad over it. I know my man loves me and he knows I love him.

This always used to happen with my and my ex boyfriend. He was always constanly staring and eyeing up other beautiful girls and I used to hate it. It used to make me feel really low and it used to make me feel rubbish about myself as well and made me think that I wasn't good enough.