Doesn't woman want to be nature, instead of articial beauty?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
June 3, 2009 10:17am CST
There were some women I knew that they thought about cosmetic surgery to increase their beauty. They want to re - do their chins, their noses, some even thought about increase the size of their breasts. I told them with my honest opinion, they don't have to do any of this. They are already beautiful naturally. Somehow, they just won't listen to it.
Some of them do it in the purpose of to attract men. They don't have to do that. If that particular man really like you, he just like you. You don't have to improve your facial beauty to capture his heart. Don't you agree?
So, how many of our modern women ever think about to get one of those cosmetic surgery?
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7 responses
@brokenwings24 (90)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
I d0nt think there is an issue whether a woman or man enhance his b0dy througH the use of m0dern techn0l0gy like in c0stmetic surguy ,for me they are being practical and seeing themselves pretty is their self fulfillment and ofcourse they did that because they have go0d especialy if they have the m0ney and the guts to undergo surgery why n0t do it after all that was their body and they can do whatever they want..BuT we must always remember that real beauTY c0mes fr0m within and still beauTY is in the eye of the beholder..Thanks
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
4 Jun 09
I am very content with what God gave me, even as I am growing older. Surgery of any kind has its dangers. One can die, one can have it go all wrong and end up looking very odd. Implants can leak or migrate, etc. I would never choose to have such procedures done.
A good discussion!
Karen
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
3 Jun 09
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think that the cosmetic surgeries that people do today are unnatural and can have bad side effects to them. I also think that once somebody gets one, it seems they want more. I guess I'm thinking more about celebrities in this aspect. I do think that people should be more concerned with other things and not worry about beauty. Men and women alike will mate not because of outer beauty, but inner beauty.
I believe god brings people together and if you change your appearance drastically, how is the person your supposed to meet know it's you?
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I like to be nature and I'm happy with that, I don't think plastic surgery is any good for us.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
3 Jun 09
I would never consider cosmetic surgery. Your body is for life, and rather than have bits remodelled, you should take care of what you have. The most important thing is to moisturise your skin, and make sure you use effective sunscreen. This is really all I have ever done since I was a teenager. I'm 57 next week, and people regularly think I'm at least 10 years younger.
It's more important to be a nice person than a well preserved one. Artificially produced beauty may attract a man in the first place, but only a naturally beautiful personality will keep him once the novelty of attraction starts to wear off.
@cchitnarain (136)
• United States
4 Jun 09
Ah, your right. Natural beauty is very much preferred in my book but I mean people all have their opinions. However, lately beauty and perfection has been a hot topic all over the internet and everywhere. Everyone wants to look their absolute best no matter what and a lot of people want to do it quickly.
I would never have cosmetic surgery because the whole thing of changing what I'm born with. I like to look at old pictures and go "AH! Look at that spot on my face, it's still here!"
@snowberries (399)
• Australia
3 Jun 09
I agree with you, beauty is on the inside. Everyone is beautiful in some way.
I guess some guys are fickle. They didn't learn that beauty is on the inside yet. Maybe one day they will.
Also some women don't have alot of confidence in themselves because of bad experiences in the past. So I guess they have surgery procedures to boost their self confidence and make themselves feel better. If they think they look good then they feel better in themselves.
We can't force them to change their minds though. We can only wait for them to see the light and see that they are ok with their natural beauty.
