"if I were a Boy" any relations or experiences that correspond?

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Ironically, my best friend(at the time) and i had heard the song about 5 times the night he took advantage of me. I loved him, he even turned off his phone! He did have a girl that he was talking with. But it was crazy because the song haunts me. Even months after the incident, i still recognize how the words relate to me. Any thoughts or stories to share?