You are the most interesting person to talk to.

India
June 4, 2009 3:24am CST
How to get you to believe you are the best interesting person to talk to. Believe you are the most interesting person to talk to. When I started talking to people, I truely believed that I was the most interesting person in the room. I believed that everything I said added value to the conversation. I believed that people stayed behind and chatted with me because they found me charismatic. Just following the affirmation, "People love me and respect me. It is a privilege to talk to me. People find me interesting and charming and always want to get to know me better." What is your opinion?
3 responses
@divkris (1156)
• India
4 Jun 09
There are a few things one need have to become an interesting person to talk - 1. Confidence to speak out - that's the core of public speaking. 2. Preperation - If it is a preplanned discussion on wwill have to be through with the subject. 3. Knowledge about current affairs - Who know's one of the political scenario or current affairs can be used as a good case study or example to coonect your thoughts with your audience 4. Humor - This alsys works. Everyone of us love to be happy and hearty. So adding humor can do its magic. 5. KISS formula - Keep It Simple Stupid. You can also make the conversation or discussion intereactive that will keep your audience at the edge of their seat :)
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jun 09
These are good points to make one an interesting speaker but they are of little use if you aim to be an interesting person to talk to.
@divkris (1156)
• India
4 Jun 09
Oops i'm extremely sorry to have given a wrong set of tips! :(
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jun 09
NP They are good tips, nevertheless.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
well honestly...i could say i am not because i am the silent type of person i dont want to be the first one to take the move or should i say first one to talked to hehehe....
• India
4 Jun 09
It is important that you believe that no matter where you go, that you are feel that you are the most interesting person to chat with. Whether you believe your lfe is boring or not, chances are it is probably more exciting than you think. There are truly no boring people, only ways of communication that express it better or not. Think, you are going a long tour alone, if your unknown partner is also silent type, will you proceed sient journey?
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
i kinda shameful type of person...i just cant ignore it....my mind will errupt and think of foolishness things..i dont know thats the real me.....im always have no courage to talked to other people especially the new ones....
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jun 09
The secret of becoming the most interesting person to talk to is very simple. It is "Listen first, talk little." People will seek you out to talk to because the thing that everyone loves most is to be listened to. I have often heard people remark what a good conversationalist someone is and how wise he is which has caused me much amusement because I heard the whole conversation and the person actually hardly spoke a word and what he did say was simply to feed back what the other had said and ask a simple question to prompt the other person to continue. The art of being a good listener is the most potent thing you can learn to increase your popularity.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jun 09
I usually find out who is a good person to talk to by listening - either to other conversations or to one I have joined.
@divkris (1156)
• India
4 Jun 09
You are right sir. People do like to speak to good listener. But how would i know whether a person is a good listener or not, espeially when i'm in a new place? Probably i would choose a person who has a good presence of mind or a person who comfortably deals the situation while talking to antoher person. :)