I'm too possessive!!!!

Figham! I'm so like you, rather, used to be. To make things worse, I was even insecure. SO you can imagine how bad it was for my girlfriend back then. Well, she left me eventually. And that was when I started to think. I realised that I can't just live life like that. The one main reason why you would keep thinking of someone, and be possessive, actually is possibly because you have too much time on your hands. At least, that was what it was with me back then. So right now, it's different for me. I got a job, which is a 8-hr shift, start a gym regime, plus giving tuitions for extra income, and picked up learning a musical instrument (saxophone =D). All these seems like alot, but actually thinking about it, time is more then enough. Sorry if it doesn't sound nice, but GET A LIFE! =) Yes, my girlfriend and I got back together, and we're both liking the freedom and space we give each other now =) Does this help?

That's not a good thing, for u, for her and for the relationship.. She needs time for herself, she needs privacy, and the same goes for u.. IF u were to be seeing her everyday, alot of conflicts are bound to happen and that there will be more arguements than ever.. Try to let go a bit.. Allow her to have time and her space, by planning activities for yourself, or going out with your frenz instead.. If u are gonna be so possessive, then i can only say that u are killing the relationship slowly.. Maybe u are not the one, who's privacy has been invaded, and thus u dunno how it feels.. Wait till one day, u were to put yourself in her shoes, and u will know why and where did u go wrong ^_^