Can you be involved in a relation with a real ugly person?

Beautiful Faces can't last forever. SO, if your going after the guy or the girl of your dreams, make sure you look deeper than his/her face or figure. because if you get love blinded in the face, then too late for you, spending life with a jerk and a looser.my hubby isn't that handsome unlike my previous bf but he's smart,loving,caring and understanding.

yes i can. there are too many types of relationship. if what you mean by ugly is what you physically see in a person, then it is not the only criteria for me to have a relationship with that person. i have 1 physically impaired friend right now. his lips is not aligned as it used to before he had a massive stroke. he sits in a wheelchair and cant walk around so much without a cane or anyone carrying him from his chair to another chair. he can use only his right arm to type on the keyboard. he cant put a headphone over his head alone, but he talks very positively while he send me his wonderful emails. if you are looking at him would you call him ugly? for the many who do not know him, the answer will be yes. but i tell you this. our friendly relationship is getting stronger everyday. you know why? because for me, what i see physically is very far from his attitude in life. as a friend, he is a great inspiration. his attitude in life is so positive. when you meet someone like him, you get to be thankful and inspired. so being physically ugly is no hindrance to being involved in a relationship. and to answer if my husband (and lover and friend) is the most beautiful in this world? physically no. but no matter, i see him as the most beautiful person that i know. hey, try answering to your questions. id like to know. lol

a man would not they look on the out side.but me it a inside that count,i rather have a honest,loving and a beautiful soul.than a beautiful face or body.

I would and will like to see good in everyone be it physically or in the attitude. How we see others, is base on how we want to see them. I believe you are beautiful! I see some of your good side too! So, can you be involve with a person whom you considered ugly?

If you are talking about real ugly, then no. By ugly i mean someone who is not hygienic, someone who doesn't take care of herself, someone who has bad attitude or personality, someone who dresses inappropriately then yes i won't fall for her no matter what. That is my description of ugliness. I think someone who doesn't look beautiful must make up with her personality and of course there's a chance for me to fall for her if i know she's taking care of herself well and looks at her actions.

I would rather be with someone most considered ugly than someone very stupid or just mean. Looks don't mean that much to me. I want my future husband to be smart, funny, reliable, and ambitious. I could learn to find someone attractive, looks fade anyway if i don't like someone, that rarely changes.

For me intellect is the most important. Beauty is the relative. I have many friends that are not pretty and maybe even ugly, but I can talk with them for hours....

I don't know what kind of ugly do you mean. If its real ugly, maybe it's true love. If I am in a relationship, I'm not looking at the physical features too much. There are more things important. Trust is one.

i think, when you are in love, or when you like a person very much, looks hardly matter. it is the person's character or personality which attracts you. beauty is definitly skin deep and should not be a criteria in any relationship.

What is ugliness is it the persons features or his/her behaviour. All of us has a ugliness inside of us. I don't look at the features of a person because since growing up I have learnt that the person who we consider to be ugly in feature are the most beautiful person in life. When one is in his/her company you don't want to leave. While on the other hand one who feature is so beautiful but yet there is nothing there. Yes I believe that the person who I am now courting me is beautiful his characteristics are ones that I have never seen in any of my previous relationships but to say that he is the most beautiful in this world would be that I am putting him on a pedestal and criticizing the handiwork of God.

Like many people i too like beautiful people but beauty is not just every thing ,not many people would like to have relation with ugly person's that's a hard fact we have to agree frankly ,but even ugly people have good heart they are also amazing like many others ,...you discussion made me think will i ......?

I think i cant have a relationship with a person who have ugly face.I think it must be hard to think about his ugly face.I will feel not comfortable with he if we must kiss and must see his ugly face.Face is also impothant too and personality is important too.If you get both of its,it is good package for you.And you are very lucky.

Ithink the persons personality is most inportant and i think that is where the true beauty is.I would rather have someone who has the personality than being handsome.

For me love shouldnot lo0k for the appearance of a pers0n if you really love the pers0n you will accept her/him bey0nd anything else isnt it .I guess thats why we have saying l0ve is blind thats the real use of that lines for the aceptance of who you really are...BuT for me love is n0t blind it sees buT it d0esnt mind...Thankz

Dear friend, May be God might have given every one some thing and might be good heart or beauty. I do have objection in being involved with relation to a ugly person I do just want the relationship to go comfortable with trust and good at heart. As I had seen many beauty and less ugly. But I do hope the realy ugly is inside the heart of with a devil thoughts.

Of course. But not intimately! I can have a friend with the look alike of anybody but to have a wife or some one I should make a relationship intimately, beauty should be of a factor! And I think that is reality!

God created all things beautiful. What i considered ugly is the behavior of a person. I don't know what others will say about it, but for me, most people prefer a good moral and decent behavior rather than to focus on some ones facial features. A lot of women have been deceived marrying a good looking handsome man but with a rough and un-explainable behavior. I don't generalize of course. It does not mean that if you are handsome or pretty, you have a bad character. What i am saying is that when you consider someone to be with, you need to observe their behavior, not their faces if you wanted to scream or run away. I would rather ran away from a person who is able to hurt me inside and physically rather than scare me of his facial features

of course no ... I will not be in relation with ugly one ... of course we look for honesty , lovey soul ...etc but being handsome is very important to me ...

That's a very interesting question...OFcourse what's ugly to one person may not be ugly to another.. I think when you first meet someone, before you even speak to them, the first thing that you notice is their looks...hence, if they may have a great personality and be a fantastic person, but if they are not as attractive as a person may like, then that person may not even go and talk to them b/c of their looks...In order to know the soul and honesty of a person, you'd have to speak to them and get to know them and if they are ugly, then you may never know their true self...It's a very interesting question. I think that the person that you are with has to possess some sort of attractive physical quality...as long as it's attractive to you, that's all that matter...I personally find my husband to be very attaractive...I mean, heck - he aint no brad pitt...but who is :)

To me beauty and ugliness comes from the inside. So how a person looks is not important to me at all, they can look like whatever on the outside and it wouldn't make a difference to me because the person on the inside is the one that will always stay the same.