My Brother Is Missing...
By AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
United States
June 4, 2009 6:09pm CST
My brother has been missing for 3 weeks now, and he hasn't called his wife, kids or my mom... nor has he called my older sister which is his best friend
Well to begin my brother has been with his wife for 25 years and they have 4 kids together. His marriage was a result of wedlock and her parents insisted at the age of 16 they marry so he did. I really don't think he loved her but he did what was right.
and I know your asking yourself well why did he stay with her for 25 years. well he ask himself that too.
over the past 25 years he and his wife has had a rocky relationship she is very controlling, materialistic and snobby. My brother is very calm very nice and sweet. so she controlled him. he worked very hard gave her everything she wanted and more and it was still not enough for her.
After 20 years of working with Cessna Aircraft company they let him go because of the ression. well she was not pleased... anyway she told him if he didn't take a particular job she was going to divorce him. on top of her threats his wife decides to take in two of her so called God children from her daughters school. one of the boys is her daughters boyfriend. My brother was so upset and He told her that it was too much to take care of his family and her new God Children. and she told him its not up to him...
SO my brother left.he was so stressed out he was losing weight and developed high blood pressure... he told my mom he was going to be with a female friend in Oklahoma but never called when he got there. His wife cut his phone off and we don't know if he is dead or alive..
I don't know what to do with myself... I need peace of mind do anyone have suggestions on how I can maybe find him?
5 responses
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
7 Jun 09
The first thing to do is call the police. You may not know how stressed out your brother was and he could have done something to himself. While waiting on the police write a letter to the woman asking for her help. I know you don't want to hear this but you might want to check local hospitals or morgues. If he's that accident prone he could have fell and hit his head and not remember anyone. Is it normal for him not to contact his family? If it isn't you may want to call the police.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
9 Jun 09
Thankfully my brother called this past saturday and told my mom he was ok... you know we were mad but glad he was ok..
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
6 Jun 09
You can report your brother as a missing person to your local police department and give them all of the information that you have. Three weeks is a long time for someone to be completely out of contact with their family so the police should take your concerns seriously. If they don't, insist that they investigate this. Your local police dept. can contact the police in Oklahoma and someone there will go to this woman's address to do a welfare check on your brother.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
9 Jun 09
Thank you. We got a call from him on saturday and everything is ok. thank God
@babykeka80 (2084)
• United States
5 Jun 09
Do you know the name of this particular female friend or anyone who might? Do you know the town in Oklahoma? Any place else he may have went? I would contact local authorities. If you know the town or her name you could try contacting them? Do you think he was a threat to himself? Besides that is a lot going on for one man. Those are the only suggestions that I can think of. It is important to try to find information on this female friend. A number, address, or name. Check anywho if you have a name. Like I said get the local authorities involved. Maybe they can help.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
6 Jun 09
If you have a name and an address I would call the authorities in that area. I'm sure an operator would be able to direct you to the correct area once you gave an address and name. Maybe the police can go and check it out to make sure he has arrived at the address or not. I can't believe a grown man would not let his mom or sisters know where he is. I hope he is ok. Good Luck in your search!
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
9 Jun 09
He finally called us on Saturday. of course my mother cussed him out good but we are just glad he is ok
