Do you really love your partner?

India
June 4, 2009 9:45pm CST
This is a question to married people.I have heard that after some years of marriage couples wont love each other as much as the early part of marriage life.They just pretend to be happy with each other. Is it true.I am not married.Just want to know about it before marrying.Whats your experience?
4 responses
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
5 Jun 09
This is probably true for some, but others will tell you they were never really happy at the beginning. As for my, I've been with my wife for twelve years, and I'm sure our love has grown.
• India
5 Jun 09
Good to hear you words.may God bless you with more happiness
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
There are different kinds of story in every marriage, some lived happily ever after some relationships end in divorce. Married life will depends on you and your partner, you need to work all things out to have a successful married life. Be sure that you really know and you really understand your partner before getting married. You should be aware to the task and responsibility that is linked in this kind of relationship. And about your question if it's true if some couples pretend to be happy after years, well all I can say is I am not yet in that kind of situation because I just got married recently. But you know what this early part of our marriage is a hard one for me too. Sad to say but we have so many problems and we always fight. I am still adjusting..So my advice to you if you want to get married be sure you are prepared in all aspects of life.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
I suppose there are many kinds of love and people do go through different phases in their lives. I have seem many married couples who lose their love but in my mind, there was never any love in the first place. Cheers!!
@nimnim74 (250)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
The love is still the same from the beginning but because we are used to each other now sometimes we just neglect to let it feel from day to day, they are also time when we look back how we show love to each other we just tend to laugh because we just joke that before he can wait for me until my class will finished but now we just tend to shout with each other but if living my life without him I can't live without my husband.