I need a listener too. :(

Philippines
June 5, 2009 4:30am CST
I have been a great listener to my friends. I give out advices, tips and anything I could offer to help them out. But a good listener needs someone to listen to her too right? I want someone who would listen to all my problems, I need someone who would give me advice whenever I needed them. I need a good listener. :(
8 responses
@abanerji (1026)
• India
5 Jun 09
hi mikmick! you have freinds who take your advice but you don't have true freinds who would be with you. such freinds would not be with you when you would really need them. anyways, you are at the right place, you can speak out your problems here and then see how many advises your get tto get out of your problem. well, try to make new and better friends who would be with you through your thick and thin
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Aww thanks. Yea I've thought about it too. Im new here at mylot. I've read about this on a school newspaper. it's really cool here. Made me feel at home in a very short time. :D
@northway (53)
• China
5 Jun 09
I would like to be your good listener, come on,what is the problems?speak it out and see if there is anyone who can help you out?
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Well you see I have this guy friend, I really like him to the point that I was starting to love him. We always talk, we hang out and we spend time together thus making me fall for him. I already told him I like him, but he turned me down, I felt horrible because I thought he felt the same way. Now that I am starting to move on, he's giving out these stupid hints saying that he wants me back. What should I do?
• United States
6 Jun 09
I have always been a good listener. I listen to my friends on here when they have problems I try to help them out. Or if they need advice I am there for them. And your right a good listener needs someone to to listen to them. I have friends on many sites I listen to. And I try to do the best I can for them. If you need someone to listen to you I am here.
@ibelle09 (155)
• China
8 Jun 09
I do know your feeling exactly, for I am a good listener, too. My friends like to tell me everything, even their secrets. So I know a lot of secrets, and keep a lot. In fact, I like being a listener but not a secret keeper. :( And as you said, a listener also need a listener. I think a good friend can be a good listener. I always just listened to my friends before. But now, I try to share my feelings with them, and I find it relaxing to do so. On more tip, only best friend can be my listener. I have one, but it is enough. So you can have a try. Find a best friend, he or she is sure to be your good listener. Be happy.
@paJ903 (18)
• United States
6 Jun 09
how can I listen to your needs , wants and desires ? I am here sitting and waiting to listen to you .. now and for as long as you need or want
• United States
7 Jun 09
I'me wiiling to give the best advice I can
@icelus (20)
• China
6 Jun 09
Hey, welcome to mylot, everybody in here is your listener! Maybe not the time, so just be friend, you two may all change mind later. Live your life, do your thing, make youslef happy.
• China
5 Jun 09
If you like,I would like to be your listener. I think I will be a great listener and let's be listeners for each other.