Why relationship tend to fail?

[b][/b]the most common reason is lack of trust and miscommunication, no relationship will succeed if the trust for each other is missing. Give and take, relationship is a two way street.

AS a therapist, I have counselled many couples and the biggest problem seems to be dishonesty that leads to distrust. If you don't have trust with a partner, then what else have you got. Trust is something that has to be slowly built up as we are all a little uncertain when first entering into a serious relationship. Once we get to experience that our partner is always telling us the truth, then we can feel confident, and the relationship can blossom. - Derek

Well from someone who has been married/divorced 3 times, there is just as many reasons lol. The first marriage, we were both too young to take on the stress, and daily issues of marriage. The seond marriage, married for the wrong reasons to begin with, he wanted a younger wife (I was 14 years younger) and he had money, which I did learn my lesson, money can buy a lot of stuff, but money can't buy happiness. The third marriage which lasted 16 years..... there was a huge lack of communication on both sides, so discussions turned to arguments. Hopefully, I have learned a lot from these past failed marriages, and will be putting it to good use in the near future! lol I'll be getting married for the last time in September. But, he and I already have great communications, there is absolutely nothing that he and I can't or don't talk about. And we also have a great deal of respect for each other, and family. No regrets, just lessons learned.

Relationships fails because we fail to treasure the people who care for us. Sometimes, we only think about ourselves. Since we think they love us and accept us for what we are, we unwittingly show them all our negative sides, not thinking we are already hurting them. If we love someone, a friend or a lover, we should prioritize first what they feel. Ours come second. The important thing is to treasure the relationship.

relationships tend top fail because of several reasons, some people do not know or understand initially what they want from a relationship that is why they have their hearts broken, while some are just too immature to enter a relationship, when a relationship is defined at the beginning, it will be easier for couples to stay longer and make things work

There are lots of reasons why relationships fail. It can be a misunderstanding where most relationships fail and the others are because of so much jealousy, cheating, money, conflict, attitude problems and more.

here are some reasons why relationships fail. For instance, deep down inside, the people involved may be trying to make themselves appear superior. Or perhaps they don't want to face the fact that their mates really aren't who they say they are.And constant negativity can certainly hinder intimacy. So those who have a difficult time focusing on what attracted them to their mates in the first place can suffer unhealthy, sad relationships, constantly in conflict over issues with which they can't agree.Those unwilling or unable to forgive, can pretty much count on having more unhealthy relationships over time.Part of communicating is asking and answering questions. If this process causes problems, i.e. even the simplest of questions arouses anger, suspicions, fighting, etc., this is a trait often found with unhealthy relationships. The party who has difficulty answering questions may be hiding something, dealing with control issues or dealing with substance abuse (or other). there are more other reasons but the most cause of quarrels i had with my partner are the ones that i mentioned above.

Hi Helscream, A good discussion, thank you. There are many reasons relationships fail and I'll try to point out a few that I have seen.(1) Sometimes in-laws interfere too much. (2) There is a breakdown in communication, couples have to talk to each other in a reasonably manner, shouting accusations is not that way. They much listen to each other and be willing to compromise.(3) Give real and sincere compliments, just as you did when dating. if there are ten things done right, don't complain about the one thing that's wrong.(4) Work at keeping your partner happy and don't give up easy when something goes wrong. Think,"I can help correct this and be the beat wife of husband that you can possibly be. Blessings.

lack of trust and communication are the reason most relationships fail. People will tell you love, selfishness, and power those are reasons also.

Relationships tend to fail simply because a relationship is bound to be tested first before it becomes successful. Relationships must first encounter lots of obstacles that sometimes, most couples just couldn't cope up with it so they're bound to separate ways. Maintaining a relationship is another thing that's pretty difficult to do. There are too many factors that make or break a relationship but it all boils down to trust.

Some relationship is beyond repair and it is where the two parties decided to separate. There are times that eventhough how hard you want to save the relationship the only way to fix it is by letting go and moved on.Based on my own experienced, constant and open communication is one of the biggest factor to consider to have a healthy relationship. If you are willing to express everything of what have you felt with your partner I guess that would be better than saying nothing but deep inside you have a lot of issues to deal with your partner. To be honest is another thing, sometimes we have fears to tell the truth because we are afraid to risks, risks of being misjudged. One reason that realtionship will break is constant fighting, which you and your partner dont agree with some things or issues and will result to arguments even those issues that are not really important. Love is not enough to run a relationship. It takes a lot of hardwork and sacrifice.

Relationship fails because they are lack of trust. Trust is very important in a relationship because without trust there will always be quarrel. After quarrelling both will ask for a break-up. In a relationship both must be equal in everything. Don't show that your controlling her/him because who likes to be controlled. Lastly, if your partner decides to call it off, let it be. Eventually if he/she is the one, he/she will come back.

They said when your senses used to see or smell or hear something beautiful every day ,every moment ... this will make you hate this thing and you will see it ugly even it's nice ... and mostly this is what happening in the relationships ... you used to see your partner very beautiful and lovely but when you see him every day he or she will become a routine ... so you break up with him and look for another one ...

When the relationship fail,we will find many reasons, such as benifit,hate,pressure,anger,etc.Who know? Sometimes I don't think ending a relationship is bad thing when two people can not stay together.Just let it go.Life must be go on. Why we have to stick to one guy for a life time?That may be a more meaningful question. One reason why relationship tend to fail is that they do not give enough space to each other.

Hi helscream , I think the main problem is couples not communicating with each other . They go from day to day not talking to each other, specially when they have problems . Couples usually have conflicts over money issues and issues with their children , and if they can't sit down and talk, those issues are going to get alot worse .