How will react when you know your partner is cheating on you ?

hi jbrooks, thanks for your resposne. my dear friend , i read all what you have written and i feel that your and mine situation are different. your wife was having multiple affairs and you were not known of that situation, and one night stands are just one night. the night goes and the person goes off. and mosat of the time we both enjoy with someone. i am a female and i like to enjoy with females also. i love my hubby a lot and at times i am possessive too like if he praises a female too much and says that he wanna repeat with the same female and so on such things. i dont like to hear such things much. i enjoy with females but never with any other male. i love my hubby and i am fully satisfied with him. i dont need any other man in my life. but females is all together a different case. females have so much to explore in their bodies. i love nicely shaped bodies with beautiful waistline, and me and my hubby both love flexible gurls. we love them. sometimes we just have some kisses and enjoy her flexibility and let her go. and we enjoy ourselves. man is a man, he is like a Lion who eats and f*ck eat and f*ck. he enjoys around forty times a day with his female. and then there is a species of monkey who mate when ever they are angry with each other and they keep on mating becasue somebody is angry with someone , some or the other time. so its GOD who has made it like this. and i have just given him that liberty because when we were not married he asked me if i will have problem with any of his one night stands. and that day he promised that he will never betray me. he will tell me about each and every female who will come in his life and what he feels about her. so we are having a hassel free life in that situation but then we are having many more problems in other areas tooo. but i think that is life, and i enjoy it.

You are indeed right my friend there is no similarity. You are swinger's and even if my former wife had been inclined to do that I would not. When I took an oath of marriage I promised to have and hold until this day forward having no others between us. My wife did not have this belief so was able to find other men. She did not find other women as you do. So I guess if what you do is okay with both of you then at least you are not hurting the other. Of course there really is no reason to be married either is there. Your relationship could be the same without marriage. I will not pretend to understand what you do. I cannot. But I do indeed wish the best for you both.