jehovah's witnesses

June 5, 2009 3:00pm CST
Let me start by saying, I have NO problem with jehovah's witnesses, if you want to be a jehovah's witness, you be the best jehovah's witness you can be! You go for it More power to you! BUT, stop knocking on my door and tying to ram it down my throat, now I know that not all of them do this, but in the past 3 weeks 8 jehovah's witnesses have knocked on my door and tried to conscript me despite me telling them I wasn't interested. It would bother me if it was any faith, yes I know I'm a heathen sinner and I'm going to hell, but so what? Let me go to hell! Does it bother anyone else when people try to cram their religios beliefs down your throat? Any advice for dealing with the next ones?
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@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
5 Jun 09
I agree with you. It is totally obnoxious. It is okay if you have your beliefs, but don't try to shove them down my throat. They truly believe they have to try and save everyone, it's totally drilled into their heads. I don't have an issue with them or with any religion, but if I want to convert, I will. No one is going to change my mind. My dad used to pretend as though he was working for someone else at his own home (on a car or whatever), then he would say "time is money" and they would apologize and leave. When I see them coming, I let my dog loose in the yard. They leave pretty quickly, he is as large as a great dane.
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5 Jun 09
I want scare em off, not kill em! I don't have a dog, maybe I could start acting like a dog, barking and stuff, they might leave then?
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@John4Christ (1597)
• India
6 Jun 09
well in my country the majority of the Christians are roman Catholics so it is quite obvious for us to have statues at our place, and once one such Jehovah witness people came to our place and said stop idol worshiping and remove all these idols from your alter, well i don't understand we have been placing images of Jesus and cross on the alter since a long time and we don't find any problem with it, then why do some people just come up and request you to do such things.....we clearly told them we were baptized once and are happy with it, we don't wish to get converted to any other sect in Christianity......after all we all worship the same god, don't we ?
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6 Jun 09
I suppose we do!
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@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
5 Jun 09
I am atheist so you can only imagine how annoying they are to me. One day when I was living in the country miles from civilization I had two women knock on my door and try to "save" me. I politely got rid of them. A week later my hubby and I pull into the driveway and their is 5 of them in a van waiting to visit me. I set my hubby loose on them and they never returned. I guess they thought I was alone and vulnerable. I really have nothing against beleivers but leave me alone...
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5 Jun 09
5 of them? They were trying to intimidate you, in a van1 were they the God squad? or the prAy team?!
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@Amberina (1541)
• United States
6 Jun 09
Just tell them you've been disfellowshiped from some distant town's Kingdom Hall, works everytime. They are not allowed to be around someone who has been disfellowshiped.
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@Amberina (1541)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Because they will come back an visit you again thinking you have had time to change your mind. I know some JW's and they told me that's what they do.
6 Jun 09
Good idea! thanks!
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
6 Jun 09
Why not just tell them the truth? They will put you on a list saying "DO NOT CALL"
• United States
5 Jun 09
My solution to people knocking on my door and trying to cram their religions down my throat is just this. I tell them that I am a satinist (which I am not but it doesn't matter) and that when I go to hell I will finally be privilaged to sit next to my lord so stop trying to save my soul, I want to go to hell. That usually works, they look at you really weird and almost run away from you.
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5 Jun 09
thanks! I'll definitely give that a go! I'll say it in my scariest voice!
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@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
5 Jun 09
Any religion that has to tout itself door to door like double glazing salesmen with prayer books just isn't worth following in my book. And I don't like that they'll let their kids die rather than allow a blood transfusion. We used to get a lot of them when we lived in England, as we were near a Kingdom Hall. Somebody told me that they don't like being sworn at, so I tried that, and it worked. I suppose we were in the book as, 'They're going to cop it on Judgement Day, don't bother with them any more.' Here in Spain, we have security gates all around our urbanisation, so nobody can get in unless we let them in or they have a key. My intercom rang a couple of weeks ago, and this lady told me she needed to come in to see some people. I let her in, and then she started God Bothering my neighbours. I marched over to her and said, 'I didn't let you in here to pester my neighbours, so clear off!' She looked at me all patient and good and said, 'Jesus calls us to spread his message.' That did it! I said, ' Well tell Jesus to call you somewhere else. F*** off - nobody here is interested.' She went!
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5 Jun 09
BRILLIANT! i I love it!
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
6 Jun 09
Do YOU like being sworn at? Just wondering.
• Spain
7 Jun 09
Not particularly., but I don't like other people invading my privacy to push their views down my throat either, so I suppose that makes us equal. If somebody comes to my home uninvited, and I tell them that I don't want to hear what they have to say, but they still persist in saying it, in my book, they deserve everything they get. If the only way I can get them out of my space is to swear, then I'll do it. I don't like swearing at people - I can count on one hand the number of times I've done it, and it's always been with plenty of provocation.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I'm with you. It really bothers me when they make you feel bad for not wanting to listen to them. it really bothers me though when they keep trying to ask you when they can see you are busy. I have 3 small children. I answered the door with one hanging on my leg, another screaming in the background and one trying to escape out the door. They still tried to ask me about it and wanted me to listen to them! So now I just keep a watch out. We don't answer the door till we see who is out there and if we see them coming we shut out the lights and pretend we aren't home.
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5 Jun 09
Good idea.
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I don't like it when anyone knocks on my door trying to sell me something...an idea, a vaccuum...whatever. My time is valuable and, most importantly, it's mine to spend as I please. We had a couple of ladies who stopped by several times a couple of years ago even though I told them that we're Catholic and that their beliefs are in direct conflict with ours. I was polite the first couple of times. After that I left a big German shepherd chained up on the front porch on Saturday mornings.
5 Jun 09
I may have to get a dog!
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
6 Jun 09
Yes, I've always thought dogs were much nicer people.
@Barbietre (1438)
• United States
6 Jun 09
I am Catholic and have was in Catholic schools for 14 years, all with the requisite religious training.I can not say I am real religous now and I may not be able to quote much from the bible, but know enough religious dogma to out argue them. I also came to know recently from a friend who studied with them 10 years (but then wized up and came back to being a zealous Catholic) that they actually discard passages from the bible they do not agree with and also change the syntax of some verses thereby giving it a new meaning. Armed with that knowledge I can hassle them back. And now they no longer come to my door for that reason.
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6 Jun 09
So they pick and choose parts they want to believe in! cheek!
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@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
5 Jun 09
Badgering people is an important part of their religion. I'm sure they call it something that sounds more polite but it's essentially badgering. Luckily I never seem to be home when they come calling so I just get the propaganda in the mail box - which is located conveniently over the garbage can so in it goes. I did actually read some of it once and I found it quite disturbing. The odd time they do come to the door I just don't answer it, they can see me going about my business in the house but I just pretend they aren't there. A 'no soliciting' sign on the door would be an idea too.
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5 Jun 09
I don't think it would repel them. It is badgering, definitely!
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
6 Jun 09
Yes I don't want anyone trying to change my religious beliefs. How I deal with it is I just don't answer the door! Simple as that!
6 Jun 09
WHat if it's someone important?
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@lizshab (44)
• United States
5 Jun 09
They are big in the area where my parents live. Have you ever noticed that they only come out when it is sunny, never on a rainy day? Anyway, here's a few options. 1) Don't answer the door, if you look out and see them, just don't bother...its your door and you certain don't have to open it if you don't want to. 2) If you do answer the door, just tell them you are not interested and shut the door in their face. Don't waste your time even engaging them in conversation, these people are like car salesmen and are trained in bone gnawing!
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@dogsnme (1264)
• United States
6 Jun 09
They are a cult. I was raised as a Baptist and I've never studied end-time prophecy but the best I know about, from Sunday School and all that is that the 144,000 refers to how many people will be marked by God during the Tribulation period...the seven year period during which the Antichrist will rule the earth and basicly all hell will break loose...to spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ throughout the world. And I think being marked by God means that the Antichrist and his minions will not be able to harm them. I think the Jehovah's Witnesses also claim that once you are saved(become a Christian) you can lose that salvation, which is also not biblically correct. I agree that they shouldn't go door to door and try to ram their religion down someones throat. The door to door part I have no problem with. But, if someone tells them they aren't interested, then they should turn and walk away. I mean even God himself is not going to force you to believe in Him. That's a freedom of choice that He has given you. Only God can do the converting, not the one doing the witnessing.
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5 Jun 09
bone gnawing! thats a good one!
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• United States
5 Jun 09
Oh, and get this part. Apparently they teach that only 144,000 people are actually getting into heaven (this number is somewhere in Revelation). I think they have been around long enough that they are way past that number, so why bother me anymore. I mean, I'm not going to make it even if I do convert to their religion, I'm like 144,001 or something!!! By the way, I think they are a cult group.
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• Philippines
6 Jun 09
here in our place also every Saturday Jehovah's wittiness buzzing our doorbell more than 5 times until they get your attention . i can say to them they must talk only to the people who is available in the street not disturbing people inside the house
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6 Jun 09
Good idea!
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@clutterbug (1051)
• United States
6 Jun 09
When the Jehovah's Witnesses' come to my house it's usually on a beautiful sunny spring day when I'm out in the sun after a long, grueling, arctic winter. When they reach me, I tell them I must go in the house because I have a roast in the oven, and I lock the door behind me. They eventually hit the road. Life is too short to argue with them. I hope this helps.
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6 Jun 09
I'll give it a go, thanks!
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
5 Jun 09
I never get more than one visit from Jehovah's Witnesses. I think it is because I invite them in and then I tell them my religious views. We talk about the Bible and I explain why I think they are wrong about what they believe. If one of them seems interested in what I am saying, the other will drag him or her out of my house as soon as possible. Within a few minutes they become uncomfortable and leave. Then my house is "marked" and they don't send any more there, because they don't want me to indoctrinate their believers. If I want a new set of JWs, I have to move again.
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5 Jun 09
Ahh, fighting fire with fire good one!
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@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
it happened to me many times too... sometimes i go nicely with them, since i like reading those newsletter they are giving even though we dont have the same faith. others are nice and wont push... but there are others really that wont stop but instead would go on a debate on how they are and how wrong i am. there were times, that i nod and say im not interested with it, and we have different faith, i dont want to be rude, but really there's no point debating with faith and beliefs...
• United States
6 Jun 09
-Sigh- I was reading all of the posts and at first I wasn't going to respond, but I just have to say this much. I understand where you all are coming from when ya'll say that they are annoying, beacuse really and truly some of them can be. But it just depends on the person's way of thinking and stuff. I was raised up in this religion, so I know all of the reasonings, beleifs, descrepancies, etc. There are quite a few people who take things way too far, like the ones who like to shove things down throats, ring the doorbell 20 times, argue, and things of that nature. I don't like that myself, but its up to them to fix it so that they could actually have people listen to them. It's just that JWs are trying to let everyone know out there that this system is coming to an end and all that good stuff, and all they want is for people to listen and try to get right with Jehovah. They are also commisioned to spread the word like Jesus did for their own sakes also, so that they could have at least tried to save someone from the impending "end of this system". Also, the reason why they always come back a few weeks or months down the line is that the person might have changed their mind or something like that. Beleive me, it happens all the time. I'm not defending the people who take it to unnecessary levels, because they really do need to chill out with that stuff. I completely hate it because it tarnishes the name of JWs. For instance, I hate the fact that there is Field Service (thats what going out and knocking on your door is called) at like 9 in the morining, i think that it should start at 12 and after. But hey, that's just me. I'm just going to defend the name and all of the JWs who are actually doing it right by being nice, being courtious, tactful, and respectful of people's boundries. Right now I don't claim to be one because of my own circumstances at the moment, but I do feel the need to at least try to explain it to people. My advice to you would be just to tell them that you aren't interested and stress that you don't want them to come back. Ever. They will probabbly put you on a do not go list and pass your house up. You don't have to do any of the other things unless you reaaaly want to get a kick out of it. That's all I have to say on that one...
@andresimp (818)
• India
6 Jun 09
That was a really good discussion.. i had gone through similar situation, we used to have a jehovah witnesses group as my neighbours.. they bring people to my house and give their own bible. we cant afford to be rude cause they were out neighbours. they call us to their church,that is something my family would never do. we belive in christianity(trinity) and we are not regular church goers. i strongly believe in God. but i cant stand people who are so judgemental and forces things on me. we simply told them, we do not belive jehova witness and no matter how many times you come to our door step and force us to read your books, we r not going to change. actually they get offerings from us for every visits and prayers. we stopped that also
• United States
6 Jun 09
I got one that keeps on coming. Luckily, I figured out when they come so I make sure my door is closed. I feel the same way you do. Does knocking on doors really help convert people? I don't think so. I figure that people are educated people and that they understand about God but they talk to you like you know nothing about religion. I know this stuff and just because you go door to door doesn't mean that others don't know too. I know their job is to go door to door to spread the message, but they might as well be door to door salesmen because ultimately that is what they are doing.
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
6 Jun 09
perhaps you should just kindly let them know you aren't just out, that you don't wish to speak with them.
@zackn87 (345)
• United States
6 Jun 09
I couldnt agree with this post more.
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