love
By noemi533
@noemi533 (58)
United States
June 5, 2009 7:43pm CST
if you are in a relationship and you are falling inlove with the person would you tell him or her first or would you wait for them to express themselves to you first. And if you chose not to tell them how you feel would it be for the fear of being rejected or because of pride and not wanting to be first???
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
if i get you right, you are in a relationship with someone and you are falling in love for that person? for me, falling in love precedes being in a relationship. anyway, as a guy, i would always make the first move. if i like a girl, then i will make an effort to be close to her and get to know her more by asking her out and spending time with her. i think that's the way it has been. i don't know much on the girl's side.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
6 Jun 09
I'm in a relationship now, actually engaged, this time around. We both had feelings for each other 5 years ago, but neither of us admitted it, I think it was both a fear from past failed relationships and not wanting to go first lol. We ended up loosing touch with each other shortly after that. Call it fate, luck, I don't know and not going to question it, but we found each other again, and we both admitted our feelings that we had then and now, and that we had never really stopped thinking about the other, even though we have both been through relationships since that time. He was actually the first to say it, but I wouldn't have waited long! lol We both know we are lucky to have been given this chance, and we are not letting it pass by. We are planning to be married this September.
