Have you ever been cheated on before?
By gogoshan
@gogoshan (30)
Canada
June 5, 2009 8:03pm CST
If so, how do you find confident in a new relationship? Aren't you just afraid that this new person is gonna do the same thing to you? Or did you blame yourself for what happened? Or, were you just too scared or too hurt to find a new one?
3 responses
@ezekiel71 (132)
• United States
15 Jun 09
it took me a while before i jump into another relationship after i broke up with my ex because he ceated on me. I didnt blame myself, because i believe if a person wants to cheat he will cheat no matter how you treat him. I wasnt scared to have another one, because after my ex i have to redeem myself, improve myself or change it for a better so i will find somebody which is better like me, because i believe we attract people by what we are. I did enjoyed being alone for a while, it makes me whole and i have to learn how to enjoy by myself so i dont have to depend to anybody for happiness.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
when i found out that my boyfriend was cheating on and we broke up it took me two consecutive years to move on/recover. it was so painful because i just couldn't find any reason why he committed that thing to me. somehow, i really can't tell that i'm afraid of finding someone new after we broke up, i just don't really have any plans of dating somebody because i enjoyed so much my friend's company. :)
@carrotman92 (446)
• United States
6 Jun 09
Well i was, it was a really weird relationshit, yes relationshit, if it was good it would be called ship but it wasnt. so in 6th grade she asked me out, i said okay, then the next morning she broke up with me, then she started dating 2 other guys after she broke it off. then in 7th we were going too, but some stupid girl asked her for me,and that didnt work out. then in 8th grade, i asked her out, and 3 days later she dumped me again. Then in 9th grade she told me how she felt, and at this time i still liked her but i was starting to fall for this other girl that my best friend at that time was dating. I found out that the girl was cheating on me, and i havent spoke to her since, but this other girl and i, well i really like her, and i am going to date her after high school, but i have to move out of state to do so. But i feel fine, i am very confident, and this girl and i are like peas and carrots.!