What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend holding hands with other?

@mymaria (379)
Philippines
June 5, 2009 10:33pm CST
Hi Mylotters! Good Day to all! Its another day for us to look forward to our business, family, friends and even here in mylot. Will I really enjoyed having a discussions here and posting comments from others. I have a situation given to you, this was a real story from my friend in our province.So I guess Its nice to be a discussion for us to collect many comments from our friends here in mylot. Thank you for you cooperation and reading this situation. when I go there to have a visit ot 5 days vacation, I did not expect that we meet along the street. I ask her about her love life, because as what I expect her boyfriend really love her. 4 years in the relationship my friend name sheila was not expected that her boyfriend holding hands with other girl. Ohhh!... sad things to know that when she told her boyfriend why he do that, his replied was this. ' I don't think so if were both okey from now on. My parents decided me to get into married and their choice was that girl, I love her because I need her. In other terms , that girl can provide all of his financial needs. No need to work. But in her x-girlfriend sheila, He said to her, I need you because I love you, but that love could ever not help me to be a successful and my parents would not be proud off. Im not happy right now but I don't have a choice but to leave you, say Good Bye! Which do you favor?in my friend Sheila or to his boyfriend? Thank You again! Happy Mylotting!
4 responses
whizkid08
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
6 Jun 09
Interesting story... Strange tht the perception of ppl is still d same...running after money,they cnt think beyond tht.. Im in favor of Sheila..poor girl..she must have been committed wid her heart nd soul.. I believe, wen u have ur love in ur life,u have tht zeal of progressing,working hard nd earning money.. yea bt for such freaks as ur frnd, its better wen they leave "emotional fools" on their own fate..as such ppl cnt live or let live "happily"...
mymaria
@mymaria (379)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
Hi, whizkid08! Yah, its true! i believe also that we can't avoid loving a person who's up in the end will leave you. through that love it can give a lesson and help us to be a strong individual. Do not put your self into a piece of paper that can easily crumble. Be wise and let it as an example in you life. God knows, and God will provide a better one for you! Thank you!
Lxia2009
@Lxia2009 (12)
• United States
6 Jun 09
Wow that was an interisting story about Shelia. In the US you don't often find arranged marriages so it seems sad for Shelia that money would be more important than love. I hope someday she finds true love.
mymaria
@mymaria (379)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
Hi, Lxia2009! Thank you for your comments in my discussion, will I respect your opinion. I also favored in you, maybe my friend will find a true love someday.
icelus
@icelus (20)
• China
6 Jun 09
People are different, they do different things and make different decisions, you don't understand what they're thinking. Maybe money is everything, maybe the period of relationship is not judge the its quality, maybe someone makes a mistake, maybe something you don't need to know and maybe your friend would find here Mr.right soon:). There's no absolutely right or wrong, people always do the things that they think right.
elghrasya
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
It good for Sheila I mean at least she discovered in an early time what kind of man her boyfriend was. She doesn't deserved someone like him. That guy don't know how to stand in his own and make decision. So imagine your life if you have married someone like him? Just be thankful to God that he wants someone who is better than your ex.