what do you think about friends going after friends exes?

the bad things is only on keeping a secret from the friend. I've just the same discussion with my friends 2 days ago. He feel awkward after finding out his exe & his friend get out together when the first time he learnt about that. But now they are all friends again. To me, I don't know what's the problem with that. If that's an exe, I won't really care who he goes out with. None of my business, right? Even with my friends, that's fine. As long as they are getting on, I would rather have them blessed.

It will break friend A's heart if she'll figure it out and that's bad because friend B is keeping it a secret from her. It is somewhat called betrayal between friends. Friend B is keeping a secret which she knows it can hurt her friend. Not all secret is harmful, it is the intention of keeping it a secret that makes a secret harmful or not. I would suggest for friend B to be honest and tell the secret to her friend as soon as possible while friend A hasn't figure it out. I believe in the saying "The truth shall set us free" so why keeping it a secret that will sacrifice a friendship when you can be honest to settle things in the right place?

ok, so if i get this right, so say friend G and Friend L are friends, friend G gets a girlfriend and then breaks it off. But then friend L starts liking Friend G's ex girlfriend. I say that as long as Friend G isnt dating the girl or guy whatever the gender of the person is, as long as they arent dating, that person is free and open. Open for business. haha so i think its perfectly fine, but if Friend G still cares for the person and friend L starts dating G's ex, then there may be a problem!