how do you view preganant teen ager?
By kaorulen
@kaorulen (258)
Philippines
7 responses
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Jun 09
It is something that happens alot nowadays, i actually know more people than i wish that had children early. They stopped there whole life that was all about full to a life with alot of responisbility.
Still they are happen now.
I dont think it is the parents problems or anything, it is just the curiosity to try, and they put so much pressure that they dont remember the essencial to prevent pregnancy or diseases
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
I think being a teen age mom will depend on the personality of the mother. There are some girls that is matured enough that they know how they discipline their children. There are also some that have enough financial income for a family. But there are also some that don't know how to discipline their kids and always asking for their parents help. But I think the advantage of being a young parents is their kids will grow up closer than them because they are not far in age.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
A lot of teenager that becomes a mother at an early age is so common.
When i see them i'm asking myself, are they able to bring up the child on their own? As i see it, three are teen mothers that depend on their parents especially when they are single mother. They can not attend to the child's needs because they are still adjusting for the change and most likely, they will give their responsibility to their mother for a while.
There are also teen mothers that i knew that at the early age, they are already capable of doing their responsibility and already mature. Age doesn't matter to be a mother for them, and they are more responsible in their role as a mother that they do whatever they can to have their own work before they born a child.
@mkchaves (530)
• Canada
6 Jun 09
well some of my friends have gone through that. and it's really hard especially when you're not supported by the people you need. i have witnessed one friend who was disowned by her family, and the father of her baby left her. She was all alone, she kept crying and which was very bad for her and her baby. It's sad when teen-agers go through something they're not ready having. But, i have also friends who now live happily ever after. some of them are now married, some of them just lived their lives and see how it will go. women who go through that are the ones who I think are strong willed because they have the option to let it go but most of them kept their babies and that's good.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
I have mixed views.I feel pity,loss,and hope.I feel pity not to the teenager,but to their parents.I know they're working hard to support their teenage daughter to send her to school.they have dreams for her.but because their daughter got pregnant,their dreams got shattered.I feel loss for the pregnant teenager.she should be out having fun with friends and enjoying her youth.instead,she has to look out not just for herself but also for the unborn baby.instead of saving her allowance to buy a new pair of jeans,she's asking money for her parents for preparing her baby's birth.I feel hope for the parents,the teenager,and the baby.I still hope that in whatever stage they're in,their love for each other and faith in God will help them.
@Jayrent (127)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
When i see teenager like me who's pregnant, i see them that they were so curious and hot in their relationship with someone they are romantically involve without thinking first what might happen in their passionate uncontrolled feelings.
As a person, i accepted that no one is perfect and when a girl commit mistake, just give them space that they are humans who have feelings and deserve to be treated equally.
It only give me an impression that they are maybe uncapable of bringing up a baby at early age, but because they do it, they are responsible with that.