Are you an easy-going person?
By fishkingback
@fishkingback (430)
China
June 6, 2009 6:57am CST
Yes ,i am .
I think i have a very good temper.I am always friendly to other people even strangers.I am rarely get pissed off unless there are some really serious things happened.I can often make my friends laugh by some humorous words or funny jokes.Although most of the time i like to be alone,and i have not many friends,but when i am with my friends,we can always have a very great time.
What about you ,my friends?Do you think you are an easy-going person?
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16 responses
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
I think I am very easy going when it comes to friends or few acquaintances but, when it comes to family, its seems that I'm the complete opposite. I easily get annoyed when my brothers or sisters make some mistake that concerns something that I own but, not when my friends do it. Its a bit strange but, I don't know why..
@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
To be very honest, I think I am in the same situation.
Come to think of it, I think it is easy to explain.
The reason is that, brothers or sisters are the people that we cannot choose, if we cannot get along well with them, we can do nothing except annoying, but we can choose friends, if we cannot be happy with our friends, then why we make friends with them.
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@nekonyanta (892)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
Hi there. Well, I do consider myself an easy-going type of person, too much sometimes that people have the impression that I cannot take things seriously at all. I guess it's okay, though, since it's healthier not to sweat the small stuff.
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
6 Jun 09
Yes,why not be easy-going?If all of us are easy-going,then how beautiful the would would be.I like to stay with easy-going people,of course,who don't?
so ,let's keep a good temper,be kindly to other people,and then we will get more happiness.
Thanks for sharing,nekonyanta,have a nice time on Mylot.
@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
8 Jun 09
I think so, and evidently so do my children. I overheard one of them telling a friend the other day that most things just didn't bother mom, but if she got angry you better watch out and move out!
I do try to take things in stride, but there are limits, and I do have the end of my rope. When I get there, I get angry, and it's usually not pretty.
The good thing is that I blow up and then it's over. I don't hold grudges.
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
26 Jun 09
Haha,indeed,sometimes we needn't to be that easy going,that depends.
As in your situation,and as a parent,too easy going doesn't work well. lol
Thanks for sharing,have a nice day.
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
26 Jun 09
Actually ,I think it is the right thing to do to think about things first before opening to others,because we don't know which one is bad and which one is a nice guy. But ,sometimes I prefer to assume that every one is good and try to be esay going. lol
@happyforever (191)
• China
7 Jun 09
Hello fishkingback,
Am i an easy-going person? I think it all depends. I can be talktive with my friends or family and can make them laugh. If they make jokes on me, i just smile. But to strangers, perhaps i am so shy that i will never be the first one to speak. So some people think i am cool. To be with a stranger, i fell uncomfortable.
Have a nice day!
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
8 Jun 09
Hi ,girl from china,thanks for joining my discussion.
Actually ,you are just like most of people,it is quite normal.
How many people are glad to be too warm to the one they don't know at all?
I believe you are a good girl,since someone said you was cool,then why not be cool,being cool is not that bad ,what do you say? lol
Have a nice time here.
@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
Be easy-going to friends is good,but when doing business, I think we'd better think twice before be easy-going.
Actually, I don't know much about doing business, but I am sure that it is not very easy. Good luck, friend.
@derek_a (10873)
•
6 Jun 09
Yes, I like to think that I am a fairly easy-going person but there are times when something can make me angry or upset. But that is the lesson of life. How to get along with our fellow humans.
Like you, I spend a lot of time alone and I am quite happy for it to be this way. To me a friend is someone who will respect my wishes and let me be as I am. I have a few friends and they seem to understand me, and that's why I consider them to be friends. - Derek
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
Hi, everyone has angry time, in some situation, I think we need to be angry.
But with our friends, we should be easy-going, we make friends because friends can make us happy, otherwise what is the use of friends.
It is wonderful that you have friends that can understand you and respect your personality, I think they are the real friends.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
6 Jun 09
Hello fishkingback, for the most part I think I am an easy going person because I have had too much stress to deal with throuout my life. I know I am slow to anger but at the same time I am quick to let the anger go. I have friends who I thought I would never have anything in common with develop a close friendship though one common thing.The topics we try to avoid are lonly a couple of things, which I won't mention.
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
Hi,friend. I am glad to read that you don't have to deal with too much stress, I think that you can be happier than others.Having a good temper is good for ourselves, actually, I think it can make us more healthy.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
i guess, i am. though some people may say that i am snobbish. but when they get to know me more better, then they could tell i am easy to be with and a friendly one too. i love hanging out with friends and just simply talking about life. eating, going out to malls and just having plain fun is the best way to do! thanks friend.
jhelai
@onlinerep01 (490)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Hello,
I think that I'm a easy going kind of person, I'm not hard to get along with at all. I try to remain humble in all situations, including when I meet new people, most times things that others say don't really affect me ,and I love to give sound advice, the kind of advice that I will want someone else,to give me if I were in need, of any advice at the time. I make my company laugh when ever they are around me, not purposely meaning to make them laugh, but some of the things I say, I have been told were halarious, so with all this being said, I will have to say I'am a easy going kind of person.
Happy My Lotting!
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
You are right friend. We don't have to be easy-going purposely, just be ourselves, and if possible, try to be friendly.
Being easy-going is good,I think, but we don't have be like that all the time, as there are always some people who are very hateful, then I think I can't be easy-going to them.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
I am definitely an easy-going person. I love to explore places and meeting new people. I make friends easily and have no problem communicating with any type of person. In a party I am a bit quiet but when I get a good set of friends around me I start it up with a good joke and have the night full of laughter.
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
Yes, we usually can have a lot of fun with friends, so it is great to make some good friends. Telling jokes with friends is a joy, that make us love our lives more.
Thanks for sharing, friend, happy mylotting.
@3orabi (529)
• Jordan
6 Jun 09
No I don't like to be easy going person ... I like to choose my friends carefully ... the closest of them may deal with me without any limitations while the others I put limitations between me and them so our relation would not be intimately close ...
I think this is much better ...
what do you think ???
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
6 Jun 09
In a way ,i think what you said was very reasonable.
Acutally ,for the most part,i think the word'easy-going'means we are usually kind to the people we are familiar with ,to strangers,i think it is a polite attitude,but don't mean we want to make friends with them,friends really should be chosen carefully.
Thanks for your sharing,orabi,have a nice time here.
@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
Me too. We can have a lot fun with friends, if not, then why do we make friends.
Being easy-going can make the world more beautiful, if everyone has a bad temper in the world, then how horrible the world would be.
@colydf (913)
• China
20 Jul 09
I think I also have a very good temper, when others have difficulties, I will be very glad to give them a hand, I love to help others, love to talk to strangers, I seldom become angry with something. When I am angry, I will not express my bad feelings, I will try to ignore the troubles.
@fishkingback (430)
• China
18 Jul 09
I think most people are this type, just be yourself.
Thanks for sharing, nice time here.