Are you really a HUMAN BEING???

India
June 6, 2009 2:32pm CST
A girl with modern outfit, nice groomed hairstyle, with sunglasses on her face riding a scooty falls, while crossing the signal. THUD!! It hurts and only a person who has ever fallen from a two wheeler knows it how hard one hits the ground if he/ she falls from a two wheeler. People rush to help the poor thing. As if it is the moral, ethical, god sent duty of every other onlooker in the street. People wouldn't blink twice before helping an affluent looking person. Then there is this woman, with ragged hair, disheveled clothes lying on the side streets of the crowdest of all places in Mumbai, near the Chuchgate Railway Station crying and begging for help at around 8 in the morning. She had delivered a pre matured baby who was half born, there is blood simmering around her with flies on them. She must have been through the agony for a couple of hours now. People, scores of them pass around her, looking at the pathetic scene but IGNORE. They don't see any moral responsibility whatsoever. Then ofcourse they might be getting late for the office so how could they turn to help a rag-picker. A journalist from the Times with some heart called in an ambulance and picked the lady up. The rest is history. If you were one of those onlookers for that poor woman would you have the courage to help her? Or would you prefer to help the scooty girl? Or would just not be bothered by any of them thinking it is not my business?
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9 responses
@med889 (5941)
8 Jun 09
I will help many as I can because it is a duty to help those whom you can without bothering to get something in return. I find it very weird when people behave as such, maybe the appearances are much more important to them than the agony of those who has fresh wound. I would definitely be the one to save than being the one who will look an go.
• India
8 Jun 09
Yup it is sad when people turn their face away and go. As if they are least bothered. It is really good to know that you would stay back and help, hope more people would stay back and act more responsibly. Thank you friend.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
8 Jun 09
This one is a nice question.....Many of us ignores their moral duties towards the society.There may be millions of reasons behind that.That is really pathetic...It is our moral duty to help a person who is in need,irrespective of that person's caste,race,creed,health condition or financial stability..It is really a terrible incident. In my opinion,a person may be called a human being who feel pain when others suffer,who stretches his helping hands to a person in need,and who has self respect and consciousness.
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• India
8 Jun 09
Thank you for your view and take on this issue. But the question is does anyone really feel the pain as a real human being must feel? I guess there are very few of us who actually do. And I want to stress this at this point that some people really do feel the pain of a fellow sufferer otherwise this world wouldn't have been going round. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
I've had this experience of the bystander effect. Once I took a boat ride home and as the boat reached its destination sores of passengers lined up in the exit preparing to leave the boat (myself included). Suddenly this one guy fell down and had a violent grand mal seizure. Back then I was a 3rd year student in the healthcare industry and had some theoretical background on what to do during a seizure incident. The thing is I didn't help the poor guy. It was probably fear of looking stupid in front of all those people watching, or maybe I thought I would make him worse if I tried to help but I did nothing. Maybe 5 minutes went by before two guys helped him. What I learned from the lesson is that we should always try to help people who have accidents like this no matter if we have training or not, even if it would be just staying by their side while waiting for the ambulance to arrive. I'm sure that is also the way we would want to be treated when something like this happens to us or one of our family members. As a side not, if an accident does happen to you, experts suggest you point to ONE SPECIFIC person the crowd and yell for help. This removes the hypnotic feeling of everyone watching while doing nothing because this puts all the pressure on the one guy, and the guy will have to help you because the crowd is expecting him to do it. If we just yell for help it will be sometime before someone has the courage to assist us.
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• India
8 Jun 09
This is a new thing that I have learnt, ie. to point out a single specific person and demand help from him. I think it would definitly work and the suffere would get the required help rather than a swarm of people looking at you abd acting as if they didn't notice. It takes a mighty courageous heart to confess. I am sure you won't let that happen again. There is a noble person inside you, you need to bring him out to play dear friend. Thank you so much for sharing.
• India
7 Jun 09
its not the out fit of the sufferer which decides others to help.its the nature of the human being who witnesses the incident.my daughter met with any number of accidents,badly hurt bleeding,nobody ever came forward even to lift the two wheeler off her.she had to do it herself.there is n rhyme or reason in this human behaviour.people are impulsive.
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• India
8 Jun 09
I am sorry dear friend to learn that you daughter had met with some accidents in the past. I have posted this topic which I have observed on many occasions. I never meant anything personal as related to your daughter. What I plead you is, if you don't think it as a personal question won't you find that outfits and your looks matter when you are in trouble? Let me cite you a n example, a person with a big expensive car whose car just broke down needs a lift, won't you be more obliged to help him and give him a lift as compared to a person with tattered clothes and looks like a labour or someone. If youo think impartially you would get the answer. Thanks for responding.
@divkris (1156)
• India
8 Jun 09
Hmm .... sad to hear stories like these. I drive a two wheeler and am a mother too - so i can correlate myself to both the incident well. As you said there are too many people to help thoe who actually don't need help and too little hands to those who actually need help. If i were witnessing something scenes like that then i would 1. See if there is anybody else volunteering to help the girl who had met with an accident. 2. Call emergency ambulence to help the pregnant woman deliver as i would persoally not know what and how to deal with the situation. BTW were you a witness in both the cases?
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• India
8 Jun 09
For this scooty girl yes but this incident was a report in the "The Times of India". We should be of some assistance for those who suffer for the sake of HUMANITY. Thanks for sharing dear friend.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
7 Jun 09
Very true! Thanks a lot for putting some light onto this topic. It feels painful when you see that the perception of people hasn't change over years. I don't understand what is so special in a girl wearing all the luxurious accessories??!! Why can't these so-called Humans actually behave as human beings!! Stone hearted people! Their business, their jobs don't come to their minds when scores of them move swiftly towards the girl just to pick her up and offer an artificial sympathy. Damn!
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• India
8 Jun 09
I think everything in this world is artificial even any emotion is not truly left. People are worse than beasts, sorry but sad.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
6 Jun 09
It does not matter to me who the person is or from what strata of society they come from. I am morally obliged to give assistance to them. Ther but for the grace of God go I!. I do not know ho anyone could just walk by and not render assistance.We must love one another as our God loves us and that means loving and caring for His people in nayway we can.
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• India
7 Jun 09
That is really a very noble way to think. But the question is do we all understand this common sense of humanity. Why is that people are standing in a que to cut your throat, Why isn't people bothered the least about the sufferings of a fellow human being? They aren't because we are too pre-occupied with our ownselves. But to look at the brighter side of it, there are some "Humans" who exist like that journalist, who really makes this world go round. Thanks dear friend.
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
6 Jun 09
A very interesting question right there "Are you a human being?" Let me be candid. If I would have seen that there is someone helping either the scooty girl or the other woman, I would probably just look and pass by. But if there was no one who was helping either of the two, I would most certainly have done all that I could to help them. Every human feels pain.Who you are and what you do has nothing to do with the pain someone faces. It is a real shame when people show apathy, just because someone is poor.
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• India
7 Jun 09
Yes it is sad but true that people tend to help only those, who they think are fit to receive their help. A beggar, a poor soul isn't in the books of help or compassion in many of us. That is why the question "are we really a Human being"? Generally people do tend to ignore if someone is suffering.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Jun 10
Well i feel satisfied helping the people who is hungry and helpless. I think its our duty.
• India
12 Jun 10
Well, that was not my question dear friend, would be kind enough to go through my post again, please?