Do your lover working in another city?

@bearound (132)
China
June 6, 2009 10:08pm CST
My girl freind and I have stay together about 2 years.This year,one of her freind invited her to start a new deparment in a big company.It is good chance for her to get to a higher level in career but she have to live in another city.That means we will have less time to stay together.We didn't have such experience before.I am not so sure if it will have negative affect on our love.Are there any guys have similar experience?Would you like to share with me?
2 responses
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
hey bearound, actually i have similiar experience with you..i jus start my relationship with my boyfriend only half year, then i forced to pursue my further studies in another country. for my future, he support me all the way, however, i still afraid that we cant stay longer as actually at that moment our relationship was not so stable as like that.right now, we are still sweet and he is still waiting for me. so, i cant stay there was not any negative effect on the love, but if u have the determination to remain your relationship, you will be able to pass through. actually no matter where you are, the love still will have the problem if u dont have the mind to remain ur love..
@bearound (132)
• China
7 Jun 09
Our relationship is quite stable now.For our future,we just need to work in defferent places for about one year,I guess. She is a smart career woman.She is the woman beside me not hehind me.I support her all the way. I hope we will pass through it.Thank you for your sharing,smallcloud.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Jun 09
Hello bearound. I think that it is better for you both to be working in the same city since you are still at the stage of love relationship. You need to have more time to be together to strengthen your love relationship for each other although there goes the saying that distance produces beauty. But once you are married, that will be a different story. This is what I think. Thank you for the add, my newest friend.
@bearound (132)
• China
7 Jun 09
Hello,my new friend.Thank you for your sharing.Maybe you are right. We need more time to be together to know more about each other. Sometimes,it is hard to make a good choice between bread and love.Now,she is working well thousand miles apart though she have to face new enviroment there.