Is it urgent for me to find a boyfriend ?
By pinetree
@pinetree (218)
China
9 responses
@med889 (5941)
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7 Jun 09
It is not a matter of urgency to have a boyfriend because you can get one but will he be okay with you so all you need to consider is to whether having anyone as boyfriend is okay or you need to choose someone really cool for you. Age is not the problem because you can get one really worth when you expect it the least. All the best dear.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Yes i agree. What if you have a boyfriend but after months you fight and part away.
It is happy and nice feeling to have a partner especially if the relationship is in good but if it is not good as we expect it, it is also sad.
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@pinklemonade (486)
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7 Jun 09
You don't need to rush anything. When you meet the right person for you you will know the wait was more than worth it and will be glad you waited. 25 is still young and you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
29 Sep 09
Hey,
No of course not, it isn't urgent, but I am always getting told by my parents that it is better to marry young, than be old and then have kids when you are older. So it isn't urgent, just try your best to find that perfect someone. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@pinetree (218)
• China
9 Oct 09
Thank you very much though this is an old topic ,but it is realistic ,my parents and my friends said I should find a boyfriend ,yea ,I think if it's not true love ,it's just a waste of life ,so just wait and somebody right will come out .In the coursr I need to prepare myself to be a better one to get used to the life after marriage .
@richi1993 (102)
• Mexico
7 Jun 09
You're young! Come on, having a boyfriend is wonderful, but if you want to make someone happy, you must be first happy alone. Smile, you don't need a boyfriend.
@13615958598 (2)
• China
7 Jun 09
hehe, you are still young, and affection is just some kind of thing can't
be urgent.
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@Beertjie (976)
• South Africa
8 Jun 09
25 years old, and single??? That is not so bad. I am 38 years old and single. Have been single for 8 years now. Never met anyone that I could be best friends with. I never look for a girlfriend, I always seek friends. I believe the right relationship will come from friendship. If you are seeking urgently, you might sound desperate, and who knows what type of person you end up with.
Just enjoy life, enjoy people, and when the right person comes along it will be natural. Why am I still single???? I chose this way because of my health. I do not want to burdon someone else with my condition, I am very content and cope very well. I do not expect someone to share this burdon. I cannot do much for a girlfriend or wife. I stick with friends, and that is ok for me.
No one knows what tomorow will bring. Don't haste love, let it grow into a beautifull flower from that tiny seed all the way to maturity.
Many blessings
@newmind_in (118)
• India
9 Jun 09
its not about that you should have a bf , its more important if you want one.
if you can find a bf with whom you can be happy with , go for it . and if you are not happy then concentrate on your other aspects of life.
But love makes life easier , so try to find someone who can keep you happy and satisfied .
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
9 Jun 09
In no way is it urgent for you to find a boyfriend. :)
Just take your time and the right person will come along. Having a boyfriend should be because you love someone, not because time is passing by. Besides you are just 25!
I think what you need to work on is getting over your last boyfried ( from 5 years ago).
God bless you! Happy myLotting my friend! :)
