If we don t received comments in our profile mean that people don t like us?
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 7, 2009 5:25am CST
What mean to be popular in a comunity to net?
Mean that people send you a picture with a flower? Or a private message?
Or maybe much more?
Depend if we are sociable? or must to be smart and people will like you?
What magic formula we need to be popular?
Do you like to be popular,do you like when people send you nice pictures in your profile?
or just few words? do you have few comments in your profile in Mylot?
4 people like this
13 responses
@simonjaymes (111)
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7 Jun 09
I don't have comments on my profile actually, i think it's because i am new though.. i'd like a few comments everyday though just to brighten up my day :) those images are cute too!
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Jun 09
I would think that if people didn't reply or comment, then the discussion itself was of no importance to even be commenting on. I have only started 5 discussions, and I received comments and replies to all my discussions. I just got done going to all my discussions I started, rating them and doing best response. I have had at least one discussion that go no responses to, but since then, my other discussions I have started, have more than made up for it by getting replies and comments to them. Well, good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
7 Jun 09
I think you misunderstood.
Icesmile was talking about comments on her profile and not comments or responses on her dicussion
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
8 Jun 09
I really do not care much for my popularity…I have seen it takes a lot of effort to be popular (though some are born with natural charm and luck) and I really cannot go to such lengths so as to please everybody and be with everybody all the time.
Regarding my profile at mylot…I have only a handful of comments but again I don’t really attach much importance to it. None of us know each other personally so it makes perfect sense to me if nobody feels like posting any comments on my profile.
@pickoy (733)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I don't mind at all; besides it's disabled in my profile. I prefer my banners to be there and other HTML features. It will just slow down the loading time unlike when you just maintain texts on your profile. I disabled images as well on my browser for fast loading as well. They can always send me messages if they want or just reply to post. I believe its enough that I can get enough responses to my post, that's enough evidence that some people may like me.
@technoobs (406)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I don't mean to become popular to this community but to give response in their posts is what it meant to be. Learning through others posts is much of important to me rather having those credits just only for popularity.
@drewsproductions (73)
• United States
8 Jun 09
In my younger ages when I was 12-15, adding a bit of pervertedness to girls can actually be bit of a turn-on. That is how I became popular on MySpace and other cool projects, but if it got out of hand I got in BIG trouble with sisters, family, and friends. So keep it low, but just a few remarks here and there. That is probably all that makes me popular, but I am not all that popular here on myLot, but am on Twitter and other social sites.
@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
8 Jun 09
I removed the comment box on my profile because hardly anyone used it and I wanted more space on my profile to play with. When I first started Mylotting I use to visit all of my friends pages and leave them nice comment images and only 1-2 people out of 50-80 people would actually notice and thank me and I thought it was weird that nobody else was polite enough to say "thanks". Since then I have concluded that most people are just here to earn extra money. If a person is looking to meet friends I suggest trying Myspace & Facebook but if you want to make money + make friends I suggest trying social networks that like Mypage5.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
8 Jun 09
i think that every online community have their rules and so activities from the memebers so i think it is quite impossible to understand a general view about social networks or communities in the net!!
As regards mylot it is a different things:such as if you don't have any comments on your profile in my opinion it doesn't mean you are not popular or considered friendly in relation to others but simply that the activity on this community is different:in fact,the turning point here is to post and answer to other discussions or open other new!!So many people here probably never visit your profile but use to be very activie to your questions or discussions and so even an online firend here!!So in my opinion it depends from sites..here it the activity will be focused on posting and quite less,than in others as facebook,bebo,hi5,friendster and so on where profile usually is much visited and it is a point to knwo more about that user!!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
7 Jun 09
I have no comments at all on my profile. I removed the comment box where friends could leave them. I have so many on my list and a long time ago some just left links which I had to keep cleaning up After that I chose to remove it. If friends want me they know my PMs are always open
Rather than going and leaving comments I prefer to respond and comment on their dicussions. I think you are already very popular here Ice even though you have not been here long. Many have noticed your courage in starting discussion despite English not being your first language. Keep it up and you will be more and more popular too my friend!
@handsomeitaliano (1050)
• United States
7 Jun 09
No it doesn't mean that at all, not even close. Most of us are just really busy trying to make money online and survive in this sucky economy, lol.
@mrsl2008 (634)
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7 Jun 09
Hi,
As a few others have already said, I think it is more likely taht people are busy responding or creating discussions, not that your unpopular.
I do have 3 comments posted by the same user, which I found very sweet. I think if someone particulary touches us, we make take the time to posted a comment or pic on their profile.
It has nothing to do with popularity or people not liking us. No one needs here needs to make a point of being popular, just be who you are and people will respond to you.
Mrsl x x
@boogerman (1544)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Hello, friend! Well, I understand why my friends haven't posted a comment on my profile. Many or all of use here are busy on participating to discussions, uploading pictures, and completing tasks so they have little or no time to post a comment on their friends' profiles. I sometimes receive private messages from my friends when they need help or to share a new earning site and they need referrals. I reply on them to let them know that I read their messages. If we can earn from posting comments on our friends' profiles then many will do that thing. Happy mylotting and have a nice day!
@jugsjugs (12967)
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7 Jun 09
I do not mind if people send me comments or not on my profile.I mean i would love a flower,but i do realise a lot of people are on here for doing the discussions to earn money there for everything and anything is a bonus.I also understand that people have lots of other things to do as well as mylot,like going to work,family etc.So i do not mind but a flower would be nice.Happy mylotting.