how do friends fall for each other...???

every one has their own idea about the friend zone. some are extra cautious not to cross it and some are not opposed to the idea of dating a friend if some chemistry develops later on. sometimes it may also happen that two people are vary compatible with each other and are great friends which eventually may or may not blossom into love so there are no dynamics related to it. it just happens.

Actually friendships between sexes don't usually end up falling on each other unless they are attracted. Some people are saying they fall for friends all the time, maybe because both decided to take their friendship to the next level. Their is a high percentage of falling in love between two different sexes. Especially when the guy likes his friend girl and develops into something more intimate than friendship, same happens to girls. Friend zone still exists, as a matter of fact it is where love begins. It's a matter of attraction and getting involved. Friendship is fun but sometimes you never know when love strikes, love mostly starts in friendship, if you haven't noticed that feeling towards your friends then enjoy your friendship!

I actually think that it's better to fall for a friend and end up with him that to fall for a stranger whom you know less than you friends. I believe what you're particularly concerned about is the breaching of friends into lovers. It's a delicate matter because once it doesn't work out, the friendship that was cultivated for years might never return to normal. I consider my boyfriend as one of my best friends now. I used to have two best girlfriends only, now I have three (2 girls and my boyfriend). I did my best to befriend my boyfriend before deciding that we enter into an exclusive relationship. It's a good relationship because friendship is what will get relationship through in times of trouble. Romance is something that gives that special friendship spice, but it's not the only thing that matters in a relationship. There are many commitments that lack romance in it but are filled with good, open friendship which makes them workout so much better than summer flings that are filled with lovey dovey nonsense. Thanks for the response on my discussion :)

well actually i think male and female friends usually get attracted to each other in the process when they have become really "close". It might be you or the your guy friend, it's either of you and you might not know it. What I am saying is if for example you spend a lot of time with this guy friend more than your other guy friend some things do develop if not for you it's your guy friend. I know that you know that your guy friends are just your friends but sometimes it happens that one of them develops an attraction with you or vice versa especially when you have become totally close. Anyway it happens a lot to most people but they are not aware of it or its either the other friend just keeps it to themselves so as not to destroy the friendship.

It happens when you feel really close to them, know loads about them and spend lots of time with them. I can understand how it works, it has never really happened to me though. It is possible to "just be friends", many people i think get confused where being good friends ends and wanting a relationship begins. At that point probably varies for everyone. Thats just what i think but hope it helps =) have a nice day!