Do you think friends is more important than lover?

China
June 7, 2009 10:59am CST
Love is great and everyone admires true love. On the other hand, although we also need friendship, we admire it less than the former.In my opinion, friendship is longer and steadier than love. What do you think about them? Which is more important in your mind?
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13 responses
@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Yes...you're right. Compared to lover,friends are those who knows and understands us well. They were the ones who were with us during pains,heartaches,sufferings and etc...Plus,they last longest than lover.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I prefer to lover wherein you are friend first befores lovers. It start with same likes and deslikes and needs and wants in life. I know all lovers there are best friends also. It will come to lover because its begin with good friendships and landed up to lovers.
@nimzia (388)
• India
8 Jun 09
love is long...but frienship is strong..............Last Only Very exceptionally....love For Real Innocent Endless Nice Ship..........friend ship
@pansy45 (153)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
yes i agree that friendship is longer and steadier than love but sometimes love feel more important than anything in te world.i ever feel that.when i'm with my friend it seems like that i did not need anything besides that but deep inside my hearthi feel so lonely in my heart.this crowded feels like so quiet to me.i do not know why i feel that till i have some argument why my heart feel so empty cause i hav no one that stay in my heart as my love.so it is all not just about what is more important nut it is some needed that so humanity.we can denied that.all we can do is just manage it so that we can get some good impact from that.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 09
I think that both are important. Friendship and love relationship actually is the same. It is depend on how ourself going to maintain it. We need to put effort to maintain both. The most important criteria to maintain both is our sincerity. Sincerity can touch friend's or lover's heart easily and make both relationship moving forward. I have my best friend for 18 years and our relationship is still good. Boyfriend also treat me nice as he say i'm so sincere to him. LOL
• India
8 Jun 09
hi lyfine..... this differs from person to person......many people rate friendship more than love and some do the opposite......if u ask me then according to me to love someone you 1st need to be a good friend of that person......because as a friend you come to know many thing about him before thinking of taking the relation taking ahead.....so for me friendship is more important than love........if a person can balance things between friendship and love then he is really a true friend and a true lover.......
@Drakorus (71)
• United States
7 Jun 09
It depends on the person, a lot of people tend to say you need to like the person that you love... If you have a lover that you generally consider a true friend as well then it goes hand in hand... If not then it's generally good to have more friends as well... But it also really just depends on the personality type. If you're more of a one person type of person than obviously you're not going to hunt for thousands of friends to hang out with.
• United States
7 Jun 09
It's hard to say, but I would put good friends over lovers. With good friends, there's no limit to just how many you can have. They're always there for you, and it's always fun to go out for a night with your best friends. Love is confusing and messy, friendship is not.
• United States
7 Jun 09
Friendship is far more important but in my opinion, your lover should be your best friend, meaning that you get both from the same person.
@jimaata (91)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
Well it depends, you cannot choose from friendship to your love life.Both is important to you co'z there are times that you need you friend and there are times that you need to talk to your bf or gf.it is just the same both your friend and your lover is important to you as long they truly love and care for you.
• India
8 Jun 09
Friendship is more important than the lover.
@edathoma (11)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Believe it or not, I haven't been to any relationships, but for me friends are more important than lover. We can never find a perfect lover but we can find a perfect true friend. In times of sorrow and despair friends are still there to cheer you up and gain your confidence. Frienship lasts forever while love can break your heart and leave you in despair.
• India
7 Jun 09
i think friend is very important than lover because they are with us when we are in trouble thats why my opinion is friends is importnat than lover