How many children do you want?
By trindio
@trindio (61)
Singapore
June 7, 2009 11:31am CST
Yo fellow myLotters!
Just wanna ask if you guys ever thought how many kids you guys wanna have with your wife in future? For me, I've talked it through before with my girlfriend (actually nowhere near marriage yet, but I love her alot)
So yup, we decided to have 3 or 4. Hopefully 1 of each gender at least, and the first child to be a son; A Brother to take care of the rest!
What about the rest of you guys?!
cheers!
3 responses
@trindio (61)
• Singapore
16 Jun 09
Yup. Financial ability definitely has to be a consideration! Hmm, for me now, I'm just studying, and popping up this question to find out how people are thinking. Haven't even thought so far about the expenses of having a baby and all! haha!
And yes, 2 boys 1 girl! =D
@xyzxgt (89)
• China
8 Jun 09
As for me,I prefer to have two children,because the only one child will bring the family much loneliness and more than two I think I can not afford to raise them,but now in China due to the one-child policy,I think I can only have one child in the future.What a pity!
@trindio (61)
• Singapore
16 Jun 09
oh you're from china? haha. I'm from singapore, and our 2 countries are having the exact opposite policies. Over at my side, the government's like so pro our people to give birth to more children!
But if I'm not wrong, I have a few friends from China who told me if you're first child ain't a boy, you can opt for a second child, am I right on this? If so, aim your first child as a daughter! =)