What qualities do you desire in your partner?
By whizkid08
@whizkid08 (715)
India
June 7, 2009 12:47pm CST
Hey friends, I started this discussion just so that we could know each others' choices..
I would like you all to share the qualities that you desire in your partner..
Please reply. I am waiting..
6 responses
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
7 Jun 09
The same as I desire with any other human being I interact with – respect. Relationships are supposed to be about love, I agree with that. But there can never be any love in a relationship if there is no respect. In fact, respect is the basic ingredient of love. So I would expect my partner not to try to mold me the way she believes I should be, in order to conform to the image she has of me. And I gladly reciprocate, live and let live, be and let be.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Yeah that is right for me. Respect of a partner will really make relationship in good. Let him do the way he do if it good. No way to change him from something or a traits unless it wrong.
Other traits for me is honesty. I want my partner to be honest in dealing with me. I prefer to be told with truth and if telling me that will hurt me, is so okay and i prefer to be hurt by truth and honest words or remarks than good but not honest remarks.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
8 Jun 09
Very nice! Understanding and respect! Two keys to a prosperous relationship.
@zackn87 (345)
• United States
7 Jun 09
They dont need to be 100% HOT HOT. But they need to have something attractive about themselves. a little bit of weight isnt ever a big deal. Obesity is a huge turnoff though. And they need to be caring, faithful, and outgoing qualities. They need to be humurous and find the things that i find funny to be funny too. And they need to know how to be in a serious relationship. I thought i found her once, but she had an ATTITUUUDEEE. 2 years of my life wasted away. I hope "The One" comes to me soon. I hope we cross paths either in college or in work. That will be the happiest day of my life.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
7 Jun 09
Ohh!! The ideal qualities what a man find in her partner. Well, I hope you get to meet your girl soon fella ! Enjoy! Thanks for replying!
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
8 Jun 09
Cool! So not many expectations from him??!! He would be a lucky guy.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
7 Jun 09
What I can make out is you are an easy going person..
Liked your vision for life. Thanks for your reply.
@Honeywest (60)
• Canada
7 Jun 09
For me there must be respect, trust, and honesty. They must have a sense of humor. Not be a negative person. We all have our moments, but a glass half empty all the time is a no for me. PDA is a must and a snuggler too!
@pinklemonade (486)
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7 Jun 09
The number one thing I care about is their personality. I don't tend to take much notice of looks. I look for a kind hearted person, shy, someone who thinks of others, someone who cares about the world, some I enjoy talking to, someone who can make me laugh, someone who is laid back but is sensitive. It would be an advantage if we had things in common like similar music taste but not essential, as long as we got along well we would be fine!
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
8 Jun 09
A kind hearted and a very realistic person, huh?!
I liked it. Thanks for replying!
