Is it true that "love can wait"?

Philippines
June 7, 2009 1:07pm CST
Or would you rather fight for your love?
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13 responses
@soleya (1100)
• Latvia
7 Jun 09
It is not good to fight and it is not good to wait. I believe that there is a special person for everyone. So, when you find each other you will both understand that you are the one for each other. Love comes easy, the one that you need to fight for is not yours.
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• Philippines
9 Jun 09
Oh I should put that in mind--love comes easy.. thanks soleya.. and tunafish69 I love your avatar
• United States
7 Jun 09
That's so true.
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@zackn87 (345)
• United States
7 Jun 09
fighting for love usually causes trouble. Relationships are hard. i rather wait until i find the one ive been looking for. its probably gunna take a while, but its well worth it. i hope.
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
Well rather than wait, it's best if all of us just move on with our lives until the right person comes, right? so good luck to us.. and take care!
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 Jun 09
I also think if we try to fight for love the relationships will become failure.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
10 Jun 09
Love can wait! Hello Cecillecarmela, I believe just what the bible says in that there is a time and a season for everything under the sun. In days past I have had love and I've also had experiences where my relationships have been forbidden simply because my parents didn't agree with them. At times they have thought that I was too good for anyone. So most of the time I didn't try to fight for love. I believe that in due time if a love is meant to happen for someone it will happen. There is no need to try to fight for it. Just be patient is my motto, it will come!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
10 Jun 09
I feel that if I have to "fight" for love, the other person would most likely end up resenting it, and I would not be happy in the long run, either. I would rather love be truly mutual from the start.
@med889 (5941)
8 Jun 09
I am with my boyfriend for nearly three years and my parents are totally against our love whereas his parents are very good one, we are both giving our love time to rise more higher than the wish of my parents, So love has to wait till my parents give their blessings wholeheartedly. Without it I cannot take the step further. We can but as a girl I will always want my parents to be present. So love for us has to wait.
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• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I agree.. love has to wait.. but at times, one should also fight for love.. especially on the guy's part.. hmm.. quite complicated huh.. but like you I also stand up to the believe that we should have the blessings of parents.
• United States
10 Jun 09
Yes .. true love can wait.. I've been waiting for 3 years.. and I'm gonna get married very soon.. I am a living proof..
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
8 Jun 09
I think LOve can wait, true love can wait. I am not the kind who would fight for love or anything. If its true love it will materialise no matter what. It might take time, ages but it will have a sweet ending. I am patient when I know its mine otherwise I move on. I do not fight for something which is not mine.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
8 Jun 09
If you love someone let it free, if it returns then it is yours and if not it is not in the first place. I have tried to held closer and fight for the love, but I have found in my life it has been failure. I also think it is better to let go free someone we love and wait for them rather than fight for the person we love.
• India
7 Jun 09
hiiiii.....actually your question is not clear that what you want to know that your love is some far and it will take time to meet both of you or it has gone to some other person and than you are waiting see in both the case you have to wait in first its obvious and in second really if your love is true than you should wait for that because true love as saying always come back to you. yes it takes time but still it come back to you so you need not worry about that and think of snatching.
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
8 Jun 09
Is it that you are fighting for love or is it you are scared to move on. I remember when I was in my past relationship it is not that I love this guy but after spending five years with him I told myself that I cannot bother to move on and so I was there trying to fight for what I thought could be the best for me. Only to opened my eyes one day and move out. Now it is the best time I ever since that guy came into my life. I believe that with love no one has to fight for it. When two persons love each other they will respect, compromise and make sure that relationship is a good one. On the other hand if it is that it is only one person who is blinded by love then the relationship will be one of hardship and miserableness. Before one really tell themselves that they are fighting for love the first question should be "Is this true Love? If they answer yes then ask "If this is true love why am I fighting to survive in it?". People said that nothing in life is easy but God says that Love should be and if this is so then no one should fight for it. It should be given freely.
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• India
8 Jun 09
In what sense ? If you say, "love can wait, I've a job to do." I'll say no, I won't keep my love waiting for such things. I'd rather take both of them together with me. If you say, "love can wait if she loves someone else." Then of course, if our relationship has already started and she likes someone else, then I'd say, I'd fight for her. Fight does not mean punching and kicking. I mean to say, I'll try my best to win her back. Do things like clear my flaws, find out what's making her unhappy and stuff like that... Ya, if our relationship hasn't started and if I love a girl who likes someone else, then again, "Love can wait"...
• Malaysia
8 Jun 09
it is ideal thinking but not so much people can do it sometimes even fight for it also useless, it mayb a thing cant fight for love can wait, depend on how much u love him/her and he/she worth u to wait in my love dictionary, u may be fall in love with someone but it doesnt mean he/she is the one that can make ur love wait for him... sometimes, we can say that the waiting love may not the one u r looking for rather than waiting, u should look for the one more suitable for u unless u found that there is nobody can replace his/her status in ur heart but currently, the attitude is hard to find in the world le
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• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Based on my experience, it can wait. =) Around 9 years ago, I broke up with my boyfriend, for reasons that I can't really remember.. And then he got together with another girl.. I was heart broken when I learned about their relationship, I wanted him back, but didn't fight for him.. He had a son with the same girl, and after 5 years, they broke up.. and around 3 years ago, we got together again. We waited for the right time, and I think, this is the right moment for it.. we are now planning our marriage.. So I still believe that love can wait.. and when the right time comes, it will all just fall into place. =)