How much you are patient with new members in Mylot? You was much patient?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 8, 2009 1:01am CST
I read a lot of topics, where new members start about what problems are here in this community. Of course that new ideas are welcomed. But sometimes is to soon to say that here something don t work good. Maybe people want very soon to have a lot of topics, answers, and of course a lot of money. Is not possible, and is easy to acusse is hard to stay and see how this community work. So, even i don t like to start new topics about how things work here, because is much better for everybody to learn, step by step what people like , want, and how they act, i will ask this question... What do you think? If you are a old member in Mylot, you are patient and try to explain how things work here, or just let the to learn alone? Do you remember when you was your first days here you ask many questions about how things work here? Any way, good luck for all new members in Mylot.(i am not to old here too), but i can say that i learn something....to be patient!!!!
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@whizkid08 (715)
• India
8 Jun 09
Lol, this applies to me as I am a newbie on MyLot. Yeah, I do face problems regarding few features and their criteria. Like, how can I participate in tasks, or how does their earning system works! Well, I found my answer in some discussions started by people and the veterans reply "patiently". Their answer is very convincing and informative. Im really having a gala time here on myLot. Hope you guys will help us.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
Hi, be sure that i have a lot of patient, even i am new here too, but really i don t like when somebody come and just judge people from Mylot...if we have patient, all , new or old members must to be patient. welcome in mylot
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
hello ice, i am very happy that when i asked someone to explain things to me about myLot, that friend was very patient. i know i have been asking silly questions which if i research i will get the answer. but very patiently i was told that the rule is like this for something and not to do this or that. another one taught me how to make an account for paypal. i had problems because before i started registering it was asking for credit card which i didnt have at the moment. there i learned that it is possible. to you two friends, bhuwan and belle, thanks a lot. i really appreciate it. have a nice day everyone. love, ann
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
Is nice when people are patient and try to help others...
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
you are right. and am very happy i have many friends with those traits.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
8 Jun 09
Sometimes people are doing damage with help. During my first day on Mylot, someone told me that all I have to do is answer yes or no...... I learned my way, what I should say....can you imagine what can happen if I follow his instructions?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
Maybe you meet somebody who just want to make jokes....yes, i am sure that is better to try to learn alone, step by step, reading others topics, and try to be just yourself...this is a good advice.
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@zouna5 (564)
• Greece
8 Jun 09
My lot is a community where you can share everything.When you first join a site like my lot you will have questions that only lotters can solve them.So why not to ask?Why not to learn something from lotter's already experience?Somebody that do not want to help by answering there is always a choice. Do not answer if you bothered by a topic or do not bother commenting it and go to the next topic!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
Hi Zouna5, i respect your opinion, even you are older in this site, seems that you don t understand my point. I ask about new mylotters who come and acuse, that old members post silly topics....and i ask if they must to ask others, how all things work here...so, if i am free to ask a question..this was my question. thank you
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• United States
8 Jun 09
I know I am very new on this site. I am learning as I go but I still have not figured out why somepeople have stars next to there name with numbers in it. Also I am trying to figure out how to get rid of that green person that is next to my screen name, so I can stop looking like a dork. LOL. I know I have a lot to learn, but I am a very patient person so I will keep reading and keep writing, but any advise anyone wants to share would be very greatful.
@wyuhong (57)
• China
8 Jun 09
Everything will be changed include mylot. We all hope mylot will be better and better. New members will become old ones,I think the reason to the question you mentioned is the amount of new members a bit more. Everyong want to earn more money,but i don't think this will be too bad about mylot.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
In my opinion, to earn 10 dollars is not very important, maybe more important is to socialize and feel relax
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@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
12 Jun 09
Hi, and thank you. I want to have a lot of topics of course, but will be hard i think, i will do my best. I am new, and i try to know many about this site, i am sure that people will help me, because they was new too.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
12 Jun 09
People like me will help you, be sure.
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@echomonster (2226)
• Greenwood, Mississippi
8 Jun 09
I am happy to help newbies if I can. However, I don't answer newbies as much as I used to because it gets tiring to write the same responses again and again. myLot is such a fluid community that there are always new people coming but at the same time there are also sets of newly experienced people emerging who can answer their responses so we older users don't necessarily have to do the hand-holding. At least I haven't noticed any shortage of replies to newbies asking questions...I would answer more if I did. I do tend to think it's best to learn how things work for yourself, though. That's the way I do things, at least. But maybe some people prefer to learn from other people and actually do learn better that way. Me, I am the type of person who read my textbooks religiously in school and barely learned a thing from the group study sessions I'd do with my friends. People do learn in different ways.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
Hi, is my opinion too, that sometimes are things who we can learn step by step, and are things who really must to be clear. of course that people are different, and are one who is patient, other who is not, others who learn very easy, others who must ask again and again.
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@bearound (132)
• China
8 Jun 09
Patience is really important.No matter what kinds of jobs or works we do,we can't achieve our goal in one day.I think,everybody know this old saying but seldom people like to insist on something in a long time.There are many distracted things today.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jun 09
You right, to be patient is something what we all can achive our goals.
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