What if there is no comment for your response while others get?

@srganesh (6340)
India
June 8, 2009 2:14am CST
Are the posters mean to their friends alone.I have seen some discussions where some responses are left without comments and other responses goes like a discussion,comments after comments.Have you faced any thing like this?Do you feel if you are left out like that?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Jun 09
Hi srganesh! When I respond on a discussion I (just like everyone else) give the discussion starter not only a chance to comment back but also a chance to earn a bit more by doing so. If they then comment back to everyone else except me well, that's their loss not mine They will not earn anything from my response unless they comment back to it (though many seem still to be unaware of this part). I see several discussions where users skip comments on certain responses, maybe because they are too short or because it is by a newer user and I am sad for them. On my own dicussions I get back and comment to everyone. There is always something that can be said, even to the shortest response so I never leave anyone out ever. I saw you on a discussion I was reading earlier and almost dropped in to say something there but I'm never sure whether all users appreciate having someone else other than the original poster leaving comments for them, so I didn't.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Jun 09
I think the same thought has passed through the minds of many users here but I am absolutely not a moderator in disguise. I made mistakes when I first joined and then over time I discovered what was worth doing and not doing to get the best out of myLot both to earn friends and have more fun as well as earning more cents. If I really was a moderator in disguise I would have got the sack by now don't you think? I have shared so many of the things that have helped me in the hope that they will help others. With all the garbage that there is for the admins and moderators to clean up on here I doubt very much whether they would ever get time to post either
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
It is kind of you to share your knowledge here in mylot to help everyone.I have seen you more in discussions under mylot,clearing doubts and hence I expressed my feelings about your role.I consider now,you are good shepherd here,guiding all of us.Accept this as a compliment.Cheers!
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
You could have commented there.I admire your help here in mylot guiding us with all possible ways of earning.In fact,I think you are one of the moderators in disguise trying to help all members.About leaving comments,I too have skipped so many,but now I learned it is the good and best way not only to earn but make a discussion interesting.Thanks and cheers!
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@divkris (1156)
• India
8 Jun 09
Well when people don't respond to my discussions i try to learn from it. I start looking at the commenting pattern and then launch a discussion that is informative and attracts others. There is nothing to feel bad about being left out as this is a social networking site and you will have to knwo how to drive traffic to your discussions :)
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
You respond from a different angle.Well,we have to learn new ways to post so that we can draw more attention.Agreed.Cheers!
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
8 Jun 09
Hi, it depends on what discussion you are posting, the way you present your discussion. if it appeals to the fellow mylotters then people would respond otherwise it may go unnoticed. Then there is one more thing important, the number of true you have got here. Your friends do usually respond to you. Happy mylotting.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
I don't use to leave responses with one liners.I am true to my response and if only friends can be answered then they can go for private messages.Can you get me?
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• India
8 Jun 09
They can certainly get to their friends, but could be a bit more polite, I was just saying what I have observed so no point yelling at me.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
I am sorry if you feel offended.Just I want to make my view clear by commenting on you.Cheers!
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
by now, i ahve accepted this kind of no response from my discussions thing. because i know we cannot please others and we cannot make decisions for them. whats important for me by now is that i have done my job on making my discussions though it isnt that good and responds to my friends post and commenting them too. thats how i am as a friend her ein mylot. thanks friend jhelai
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
9 Jun 09
I am actually speaking about not getting comments while all other responders getting the same.It is like feeling left out by the poster.As for you,it is clear, you are fed up without comments.Don't lose heart.Soon you will be getting more.Cheers!
@pansy45 (153)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
as long join my lot i never make my own my discussion.i will try that but maybe later.cause now i realy enjoying.post respons better than make some new discusion.but if i am in that situation i will pass it and jus accept it,what can i do?maybe my topic is not interest by someone else.but it will be gain my spirit to make another disscussion that can make other people get interest with it.so never give up.cause sometime what myelf like it is not mean that the other people like it too.people are different and we can judge them with a same personality.it is so normal.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
Now as we have learned that not only with responses,we also earn with comments.So,don't go away with responses alone but spare some time to comment back too.That will make discussions interesting apart from earnings.Cheers!
@pansy45 (153)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
it is depend the topic of discussion, if i think the topic is very interesting for me iwill not just left out, but if the topic is not interesting for me generally i just meke once comment and left it to find another topic that intersest for me. As long as i join in this forum generallay i just make one comment for one topic. i also did not find a relly topic that it be along discussion in this forum, may be it cause i have found topic that make me so iterest.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
Oh!You leave it with a single comment for all of the responses and look for new posts.But now it is made clear you can earn for all your comments.So,would you mind leaving comments hereafter to all the responses?
• Germany
8 Jun 09
Its a matter of luck I think wether your discussion catches fire or not. This one you have started 1 hour before I came in. But if I would have slept due to my different time zone I would never have found it, Greetings from Germany and happy myLotting!
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
Yes!We live in different time zones,I accept.I am worried about people who comment on friends alone or to some responses and leave abruptly others.On a self analysis,I too have done this.I had commented only to the responses I give BR and left all others.Now I am not going to do like that.Cheers!
• Singapore
8 Jun 09
in some of my discussion , i comments to some and some did not , it's not because they are my friends so i give comments back , sometime , is because i have something to say to that person , while the other i have nothing to say or to ask ,
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jun 09
Oh!There is a point in your response.That others give one more lead to comment back and there are responses which don't need comments.I can understand you.Thanks for coming out with a new view.Cheers!
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
8 Jun 09
I started a discussion yesterday, that I wasn't sure how it would do, but by this morning I had 20 responses, which I didn't expect at all, but I am just tinkled pink. It was an interesting enough of a discussion that people wanted to respond to it. I was earlier, posting comments to all the responses. It didn't bother me though as I am glad to do it. I not only got a lot of responses, it helped my rating as well. I am going to though when I get the time, to respond to my friends discussions that I didn't respond to. That will take some time as I have over 50 friends, but I don't think all of them posted discussions. I am just loving it here, and I wouldn't want to be anywhere else. Well, good luck to you and happy mylotting.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
9 Jun 09
Oh!You have already learned the joy of commenting back.It will be nice for you to know we all earn for commenting back more.Just the number of responses we get will not get into account.You can earn more for your comments.Cheers!
• United States
9 Jun 09
I think that you should pay a great deal of attention to the interest group that you are choosing when posing your discussion, if the group isn't very popular not many people with see your post... Secondly, make friend! If someone writes a post that you think is smart or funny, add them! that way the next time you have a funny and smart post there will be someone to read it! I think that's the thing... If anything is just as important as the quality of content, I think that interest group selection is it.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
9 Jun 09
This post is not concerned about the responses but the comments from the posters for the responses.Hope we all will get comments back as it is now revealed that you can earn from it.Cheers!