teacher, ex-student..... romance???
By MMichK926
@MMichK926 (4)
France
June 8, 2009 7:27pm CST
I am 19 this month, I graduated high school just over a year ago, during school my art teacher and I were very close. He is about 9 years older than I am, but we can communicate and relate on a very real level, about many things. I find myself very attracted to him, and have seen a lot of signals that tell me that he feels the same. I am somewhat unsure, as he has a playful demeanor and is adored by most of his students. He came into the school during my third year and I was attracted immediately, but told myself not to be, it doesn't really work that way though, as my attraction only grew deeper. We have been in close contact since I left school and sact flirtatiously, but have not yet communicated any feeling for one another. I have been traveling for almost four months now, and he is hosting a school trip....our paths are going to cross in Paris for two days. We have already made a plan to meet up, but I am debating giving him a more honest look into how I feel. I wanted to know if it does seem, with little information, as though there is an attraction. Also if it would be the right time to let him know how I'm feeling. Also what is the thought on this kind of relationship in general?
1 response
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
9 Jun 09
Well, you aren't in school anymore so it wouldn't be illegal in any manner, right? And, he is making an attempt to meet up with you, so it seems that he is feeling the 'vibe' too. I think that as long as he is single it seems you two are both interested. But, I would advise that you wait till you get back home to really try to start any sort of 'romance' with him because it will be so much easier on you to see where it could go. If you try to start something us now, it could be construed as a 'hook up' or either of you could end up not being able to develop the relationship in a healthy manner if that is what is desired here.