give reasons why people fall out of love.
By cainam
@cainam (493)
Philippines
June 8, 2009 8:31pm CST
relationships end for different reasons.. most common reason is incompatibility resulting to conflicts and arguments. but i think that if two persons really love each other conflicts and disputes may be resolved by any means.. so i can say that the bottomline of all the conflicts between a couple is because they already fell out of love with each other.. but what are the reasons which causes a person to stop loving someone? if this may happen,is it really love?
6 responses
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
there are many reasons why couples fall out of love with each other.I'll give 3 that I think are common.one is when one of them will choose to concentrate on their career and find their lovelife as distraction to their career growth.another is one of them will find someone who he/she thinks is better than their current partner.another reason is they find their relationships boring.they want to be single again to be free to do whatever they want.
@sarda123 (2)
• India
9 Jun 09
from my point of view,love should be beyond imagination and without any comparision,that is all about true love,i don't think to concentrate on your career you have to dump your love rather it would be very much helpful in case of true love because you get full support of him or her and you can focus well on your career.in love comparision is totally worthless,it is like tahat the couple should think they are made for each other.the relation can be boring only if ther is misunderstanding among themselves.
@rhenmhar (3)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
love, they say is a very mysterious thing. you didnt know when you will fall in love or with whom.in all relationships love is present. love with another person, love for a friend, parent-child love or even at work. all these has love and it depends on the stage of the feelings. same as falling out of love, there are a lot of reasons. incompatibilities, another person, differences, losing trust. i could go on and on but still we will end up asking why a person fall out of love. love is an emotion and emotion changes! when you fall in love you thought that the person is the right one for you for how long it might be. then when you fall out of love you will start the process of looking for somebody to fall in love with again. the cycle will be the same..time will come one of you will fall out of love and the cycle begins again. you can only say that you truly love a person when you die loving that same person. i can give a long list of things that we can blame why we fall out of love but there is really one thing we should keep in mind: nothing in this world is permanent and the one and only permanent thing in this world is CHANGE!
@skaterx (530)
• Finland
10 Jun 09
Yeah I think its incompatibility. That's the biggest thing. But that's the one with least hurt. The other stuff, arguing and conflict, either leads to it being solved, or hurting, so its actually really hard to maintain relationships. Both people have to be calm and sound-minded, and to love each other enough to work through problems logically and not explode or get mad at each other. So I reckon I'm fine with breaking up, because either its when I'm incompatible with someone, or they are not treating me with the respect I deserve.
@gypsywoman344 (214)
• United States
9 Jun 09
There are so very many kinds of love. And we are such individuals that the love you share at one point in your life can change. Sometimes those changes can deepen the romantic love, sometimes the changes can result in two people who love each other growing personally to a point that they just grow in different directions. In those cases , best cases, they still love each other, are friends but need to move on to fullfill themselves or pursue some important destiny. Just because you move on does not have to devalue the relationship you had with that person. One of my best friends is my EX. I don't have to explain anything to him, he was there for the history and we can share our lives without having to go back and explain what led us to where we are.