How do you I get my husband to pay attention to me?

I admit I am no longer my husband's center of attention. Well same for me. He is no longer my attraction as well. When I gave birth to our son, both of us are focused more with our baby. Taking care of him..playing with him and that sort of stuffs. I guess that's what happened when a couple have a child already. Lol! The good thing about it is that atleast, we are making ways to give each other time as well. It is not much like when we are only the two us in the family but still, there is the effort. And for me, that's enough already.

My husband and I have a date night once a week so we can reconnect....so, no, I dont feel neglected at all by him. I would suggest that you make a romantic picnic for him. Get rid of the children if you have any. Spend the night focusing on your husbands needs and he will in return focus on yours.

Make yourself number one focus, find what makes you happiest and be happy and he will want to be around you. Happy people are like magnets. It is nearly impossible to get someone to act or behave the way you want them to but you have complete control over how your feeling. Once you find your bliss, you won't even worry about how much attention he gives you. He will be the one wanting to know how to get yours.

Sometimes I do feel that, when he comes home ,he just plays the online poker thing and neglects me, I feel upset about that, I have told him but he forgets thing pretty quick... I don't know what I can do to make me pay more attetntion to me, I guess all guys are like that.

I am married and i feel very unloved and not respected by my husband.We have been married for 14 years now and now i look at my husband the same as he looks and treats me.I have tried to put the love back into our marriage with no success,so please do not feel you are the only one who feels like this in a relation ship.Try a bit of romance as in a nice meal just the two of you and a dvd make him feel good /special see if that helps anything is worth a try.

sometimes unknowingly he does so,and sometimes due to my rude behaviour he does so,bt after doing anything wrong to me he always realises his mistake & ask for sorry,bt most of the time i feel his behaviour is rude & shrude because of me.I try to appease him by pampering him,making food of his choice,try to make light atmosphere with light talking & gossping.

its simple. first u have to understand him.what's his need?.if he likes to eat different variety of foods try to prepare that for him. Be honest.if he is in anger try to get him out from that. pay attention to him.