kiss on the first date??

Philippines
June 11, 2009 1:42am CST
Single people, including me, date guys. You know, just to have fun, no committments attached, with the primary purpose of getting to know that person :) These dates usually happen in restaurants, malls, and other places that are good venues to talk and just chill. When you like that person whom you are on a date with, are you pro kissing on the first kiss? Why and why not? Guys and girls, I want to hear your opinion!
5 responses
@YazEid (1138)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
from the first date the future of the relation will be clear , so if I think that this relation will go on I will make a first kiss and maybe a first night too but if it wasn't to go on .. then I should politely end it at that level , because I don't like to manipulate others' feelings
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Well it really doesn't matter to me because it still depends on the outcome of the date. Sometimes a kiss is too close for comfort and i don't think i'd be making an impression by kissing. Some ladies i dated have boyfriends and i was just lucky to be able to convinced them to go out on a date with me. A kiss would be improper in a situation like that right? There's one instance where i dated someone, kissed and ended up in bed. She eventually became my girlfriend. That's a lot better than kissing someone with a boyfriend right? So where will i position myself? So it doesn't matter.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
11 Jun 09
I don't see what's wrong with it. I would do what's feels right, although obviously there are limits to this. It's not like kissing is a huge commitment or something; so I don't really understand how people could be against kissing on the first date.
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
It's ok if both of you like it, then there's nothing wrong. But I guess it would be better to give him the first kiss when you're officially in a relationship. It's more romantic and definitely a very good story to tell your future kids and grandchildren that when you answered yes he immediately kissed and hugged you.
• India
11 Jun 09
First kiss is always a precious one which should be given to a person who is a real person who knows you,who loves you,who cares you.. If you can able to know the person fully, at the first date ( known good character) , then kissing is the best part of that dating. Anyone else just going for a kiss without knowing much will be some salty one , i.e it isn't sweet much. Because kiss denotes the strong association between the two!