please help me???
By kamisha
@kamisha (95)
Mauritius
June 11, 2009 2:17am CST
i love a guy a lot and sometimes he treat me as a 'dog'...sorry for expression bu i have to say it...am a student of higher class and when he does like this i feel lonely and concentrate in my studies??and the exam is approaching day by day...
8 responses
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
11 Jun 09
Does he like you at all? If he has told you that he likes you then you can express what you feel and tell him , how it hurts you.
If he has not told you that he likes you, then I suggest just forget about him.
At least for the time being. No person who disrespects you deserves your love.
That is a life lesson you must always remember.
Please focus on your studies.
You need to remember one thing. He will not be affected in anyway because he treats you badly.It impacts Only you. So don't let someone else have a negative impact on you.
Good luck and god bless you! :)
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
11 Jun 09
If he has expressed to you his love, then clearly tell him how disrespectful his behavior is and that love means respect for each other.
That is the first thing about love.
These days the term "love" is used too loosely. Love does not mean talking on phone for hours or going to a coffee shop or watching a movie together. People in love do these things, yes. But when 2 people love each other,respect goes without saying.
So I tell you this,if I were you, the next time he disrespected me, I would tell him why and how it hurts me.If he does not care, then I will just stop bothering about him.
Please pay attention to your studies my friend.People like this will come and go.Trust me. It is not worth messing up your grades over.
I wish you the very best
@flowertime (15)
• China
11 Jun 09
time can solve everything. if you want to get love from someone, you can leave him for a while. you need some time to think. maybe a true love will wait for you in some days.
@med889 (5941)
•
11 Jun 09
All you have to do is to forget him completely for the time being, you cannot fail just because of him so wake up and see te reality as it is. You will have to succeed because you want it. Don't make others fail you because you are bound to be who you are. Never change yourself for anyone because you are special the way you are so boost up an revise and forget him for the time being. After your exam you will be much more better to take up a decision about your relationship with him.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
11 Jun 09
Don't mix emotion with education. If someone treats you like a dog now how will he treat you after marriage. You should take more time to know the person and give that person time to know you as well. Your studies come first after all because it is a your passport to your future.
@kamisha (95)
• Mauritius
11 Jun 09
but if i keep looking after studies then what gonna hapen if i'll lose him??the fact is that he also loves me a lot...i can't afford to lose him..
@boyannis (1)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
the mere fact that you channel your energy and time in your studies makes you already a very smart gal, you know what to prioritize but you're only constrained by what that guy makes out of you---excuse me for the term "dog", remember no one can make you feel inferior unless you allow them to. I think the more you concentrate in your studies will make you think of him less especially if you start acing all your exams and topping all your subjects. ;-)...but remember to do all your studying in a place where you don't see him.
@quincy_13 (65)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
Do you guys have a relationship? Like, you're dating exclusively? If yes then it's safe to say that you do love each other right?But remember, if you love someone you will not do anything that will hurt that person. So start telling him to treat you with a little respect, not in those exact words of course.He might think that you're trying to sound over board.Maybe just tell him to treat you with a little kindness or treat you extra special. Because that's what people do to their loved ones right? i know you're a smart girl because you know how to divert your attention to your studies, i know you'll do good in your exams. Just think of how to straighten out things with this guy.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
If you feel that this guy is not treating you right, then he probably does not deserve your love. You are right, you are better off concentrating on your studies first. If you are still studying chances are you are still young and you have a lot ahead of you, there are so many guys out there, why settle for someone who does not treat you well? You must learn to love and respect yourself so that other people will also respect you. Don't let anyone treat you bad.
