what can we do so that our partner respect us more?

India
June 11, 2009 4:18am CST
Hallo all, Since last some days i started feeling that my lover is considering me as granted and thats true as i m really granted as me and he both know now death can only make me go away fromhim, on small small things he scold me , he usualy say taht i m very stubborn,kiddish. actully my expectations are also very high,can you tell me some ways to improve respect of mine in hi smind?
3 responses
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
well i think your boyfriend is a bit selfish and judgmental..he himself should think of respecting you more because you deserve to be respected as a woman. for your concern though, i think we can be more respectable to our partner if we are more honest to him with everything. this also would apply to the other gender.
• India
12 Jun 09
see what i like to mention here is its not that i ma not loyal in fact some time i feel iam more loyal and its becoming problem some time i tell him what ever come in my mind and he is not able to digest that thing, in his view he think he respect me more than all and my expectation are very high
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@th52096 (469)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
Hello there Truptid, It's sad how your boyfriend treats you. I would never treat the girl I love that way, its just cruel. Well, if I were a girl and in your situation, what I would do is start talking in a way thats annoying like being apathetic, talking in a monotone voice, act like you don't care about him, then you start avoiding him. Again, act like you don't care. If he asks what he did, say everything blah blah blah.. After all, One never knows how much something means to them until they don't have it anymore. haha! I don't think that came out right. xD Good luck with the situation and I hope everything works out!! I can see you're new here! I have been here for a few weeks now! I just have a few posts because I'm not that active here in MyLot. anyways.. WELCOME TO MYLOT! I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT TIME!! I'M PRETTY SURE YOU'LL LOVE THIS PLACE! THE COMMUNITY HERE IS JUST WONDERFUL! EVERYONE IS FRIENDLY AND KIND! HAPPY MYLOTING!!