is he really love me?
By azumi_mazta
@azumi_mazta (61)
Philippines
June 11, 2009 8:38am CST
i have a boyfriend who's with me for more than 5 years now.we've been too many trials and break-ups but things will not take too long coz' no matter how big the problem was we always miss each other.i love him and i know he love me too.but by and by we always argue about financial.i can say that i have a good job which really satisfied my needs IF...if only my boyfriend doesn't always have my need.he has a job as well but it doesn't support us when we go to a date or what.i give more to him than my family. i always break him up but no matter what i do i can't afford seeing him begging on me.to be honest, a lot of guys awaits me but why him? i know i would regret if i give my life to him.
4 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
As I read your post discussion. I see to it that your boyfriend not love you. He loves only money, my friend. I advice to go away with your boyfriend, since the time is not late. Because someday you found that your boyfriend stay on the person that whom he loves so much. A person that have more money that you, are? If he really loves you, why he doesnt show some respect in your part. Why he always argue with you about money, since he is not your husband. What if you and your boyfriend enter into marriage what happen to you. Didn't that relationship stay longer? Please think all the possibilities that you may not regret on the future...I know you are wise enough to think what is right and what is wrong.
If you have more doubts about it. Reach me again and ask for my assistant and help you how to free from that problem...take care my friend
@pinklemonade (486)
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28 Jun 09
I think you need to sort out between you whether you want to share your money or keep it for yourself. Because by the sounds of it you are sharing your money but you are not really happy doing so. I think it's only fair if one partner earns more money that they pay more towards things like bills, dates etc.. because the other person can't afford it as much. This is just an example but me and my boyfriend are 19 and 20. We are both students who have very little money however I have a student travel card and he doesn't. So when I travel to London it costs me £6 something and him £9. Well I don't like seeing him pay more for his train ticket when he has as much money as me so whenever we go to London together we both pay the average of the ticket which is around £7.50. It is things like that couples should do together instead of fighting over things. If you both love each other you will take a step back and look at how this is affecting your relationship and work on making it better. It's all about give and take.
